i dont know what to do.... im not ready for one yet.
2007-08-03 11:17:17 · 34 answers · asked by ♥im IN~LOVE!♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
if ur not ready than explain that not worth putting urself into that position when u are not ready also with ur age not a best idea i mean i was 18 when i found out i was pregnant now am due my baby in 2weeks and i have recently turned 19 and i the amount of people tellin me that i will be a poor mother cause am not in my 20s is rather frequent so may be the same with u
but what age is ur bf? if he is kolde then he should know 2 be pateint with u
because what would happen if u found out u were pregnant and he left u and u had 2 deal with everything that wouldnt be good there is alot 2 think about but as i says if ur not ready then dont let him push u into it because it is mainly ur decision on when u want a kid cause u wil be the one caring for it most of the time
good luck
2007-08-03 11:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that as soon as he figures out how to get pregnant himself, spend 9 months feeling sick and getting kicked in the ribs, push an 8-lb. baby out of his nether regions, and then spend weeks trying to recover from the whole thing while getting up every 3 hours at night to feed the baby, then he can have one. Or he can go and get another girl pregnant.
Don't even THINK about doing this now. Having a baby so young is devastating to a young woman. Wait until you've completed your education and are financially stable enough to support a child, and you will be able to enjoy that baby so much more. Make sure that it's what YOU want before you do it!
2007-08-03 11:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by veramarie32 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOOO! Don't you want to still be a kid yourself? Go to the movies, play at waterparks, hang out with friends? You can't do all that AND have a child. I think your guy needs to think through the cost of 10 gazillion diapers, baby food, maternity clothes, hospital costs, baby clothes that only fit for 2 weeks (then buying more baby clothes), bottles, blankets, toys, and tons more, not to mention the physical toll it will take on you to give birth before you're even fully developed, plus the energy and sleep it will cost you to raise a child. It's far better to wait until you are married or in a very secure relationship and have the finances and the patience to raise a baby. Tell your guy no, and if he pushes it then get rid of him for being selfish and irresponsible and not thinking what effect it would have on you AND on your future baby.
2007-08-03 11:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerlily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surely you know the answer to this one!
I love babies like crazy but, really, you're not seriously considering this are you? Any boy/man who asks a 15 year old for a baby is selfish and possibly just trying to control you. I guess you "love him" and don't want to hear this, but you really, really shouldn't have a baby on purpose at your age! Now, if you actually do get pregnant, please carry it to term and take care of yourself, but don't TRY to get pregnant at age 15. You're much to young for sex anyway. Don't you know that he could get in serious trouble for having sex with a minor?
As far as what to do - tell him what I just did. If he's half a man at all he won't push the issue. If he still does then apparently you've ALREADY got a baby on your hands: HIM. You'd be much better single!
2007-08-03 11:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Watermelon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You practically answered your own question when you said you weren't ready simply tell him you aren't ready if he continues to pressure you end the relationship. Life will go on you have too much at stake to risk having a baby so young. If after you speak to him and he is willing to wait until after college more power to you and best of luck. Never let anyone convince you to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Young lady I think you should also be open to and have this conversation with your parents.
2007-08-03 11:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have answere your own question: You are NOT ready!!!....and I couldnt agree more!...15 is too young...you have sooooo much to live!!!...enjoy it!!!...when I was 15 my then bf wanted a baby REALLY bad...we ended up breaking up. At that age, what are the odds of you two ending up together to raise this child??...come on...focus on other things like high school...you dont want to miss any of that because you have to stay home and take care of your baby, do you???...If hes doing the "you will if you really love me" crap, then you need to ask your self if HE loves YOU!...think about it!!
2007-08-03 11:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by .^_^. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO!!
your young and should enjoy your teens get a good education hes not the one who would be carrying and taking care of the baby 24/7 its not as easy as he thinks as he would still be able to go have fun but u will be tied down at home with the baby.
2007-08-03 11:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Manaia's_mommy4eva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the thought of having a baby is great but at 15 you and your b/f are still teenagers, u both should be having a normal 15yr old relationship which shouldn't really involve sex, in my opinion you have a many years of fun and experiences to live first, a baby is not a novelty its forever and it take alot of money which neither of u would have - ask yourself if you want a career, college, or travel, these are the things you should striving for first, there is a giant world of opportunity's out there - don't miss out on your youth
2007-08-03 11:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by alyie_cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, clearly the answer is "no, don't do it!" You just admitted you weren't ready for a baby, so why would you do it?! Just tell him you're not ready. If he loves you, he'll respect that.
PS - 15 is too young for sex!
2007-08-03 11:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you're taking birth control pills every day and taking care of the birth control part of the relationship, because he obviously will not. If he continues to try to "convince" you after you've told him no, not until you're married and an adult, then get a new boyfriend. How old is he?
2007-08-03 11:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by STACEY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋