I am 19 yrs old, and I have been going out with my boyfriend for four months..... but we're crazy about each other... I have known him for a year. Today we had protected sex and he shot....... but then he went raw...which is fine because we got checked and we're both clean....but I warned him not to shoot because I am getting my period soon........ I didn't think he would because he usually shoots once a day......... but afterwards he told me he shot.
So now I dunno if I am gonna get pregnant or not.... He said he was gonna be by my side........but then we started talking and I realized we would face soooo many problems. Am muslim, he is cristian.......he wants to raise the kids as cristian, I want them to be muslim.... my parents would not approve because he is jamaican and i am arabic.... but then we both would want to get married.....but I think am too young
Should I take the morning after pill (plan B)...am usually the type that lets faith happen.....watever happens is meant to.
2007-08-03 11:04:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Should I not take it and let faith play its role? I dont really want a kid now, but I am against abortion..... like if I get pregnant, am keepin it......
But my boyfriend is about to be 23........ but are we ready for that type of responsibility?
Like we would have to get married! But how will we raise the child, we have sooo many differences culturally speaking........
2007-08-03 11:07:26 · update #1
what you should do
is take a few pregnancy tests
and first see if you're pregnant
and if it comes out negative, great
and if it comes out positive here are your options:
- you could raise your son/daughter alone
- you and your boyfriend could get married once you're older
- you could get an abortion (but as you stated you are against them)
but my cousin got pregnant and her parents didn't approve of the guy because he was mexican and she was white, and she went and had the baby. so once reality sets in that they're going to have a grandson/granddaughter they will only try to help you. because that's what usually happens
good luck and i hope the test comes negative for you (:
2007-08-03 11:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by i love you <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to be certain I would use the morning after pill. In the future I would use a condom at all times. Until you're ready to have a child. If you're that close to your period chances are you'll be just fine. I dont understand why people are getting cross with you. I was your age once and sex was so new and exciting. Its just in today's world we have to use so much more caution. Im sure things will work out for you. Like you I have the attitude whats meant to be will be. Best wishes.
2007-08-03 18:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel as if you both are ready for a child, then you should take the morning after pill just in case. If you do get pregnant show the child both the Christian and muslim way and let the child choose when they are around 13 years of age.
2007-08-03 18:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by DesTynee J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jumping to conclusions. it's normal for guys to "shoot" .first things first.Chances are you are not pregnant. You mentioned he used protection. Wait for your period...if you are pregnant..you can handle that. Procreation is what makes life go on..weather you are ready for a baby or not. You said you have faith....Then let go and let god.Deal with this one step at a time! be concerned if you miss your period. Other wise...Calm down! you will be alright.
2007-08-03 18:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Flynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a bad movie - you're Christian but screwing around, he's Muslim but screwing around, and you're having unprotected sex, but might take the Morning After Pill, but you actually have faith?
You need more common sense, and less faith, in your relationship. Take the pill, stop having unprotected sex, be smart. Do what you know you need to do - none of this "I didn't think my boyfriend would have an orgasm" nonsense.
2007-08-03 18:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by rstrother 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep you legs crossed in the future. Sex makes babies. If you aren't ready for babies, then do not have sex. It is not rocket science. Protection or not.
2007-08-03 18:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well the chances are probably really slim that you would get pregnant. but if you want to take plan b then take it. if you want to let faith take its course then do that. it is really up to you.
2007-08-03 18:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the morning after pill. You may think it's killing a life, but it hasn't even begun.
2007-08-03 18:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he wearing a condom
i think you're over-reacting because u dont know your pregnanat yet. But go get chaecked. And if you are, remember thats a blessing
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2007-08-03 18:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Judge me by my music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are about due... the risk was EXTREMELY slight.... it the middle of the cycle that you should worry about,....
2007-08-03 18:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by I Can Count To Potato 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋