(Some) may tend to react different in a certain way for example:
Jenny: Hey,girls.Listen you've been my friends for years,and I've finally found out who I truly I'm and I feel comfortable with being myself.So,what I'm trying to say is I'm a lesbian.
Sarah: A lesbian? what umm.. ew.
Vanessa: OMG like get away from me please dont try to touch me, im straight remember...
Sally:Jenny,Maybe you shouldn't sleep over my house any more.
Amanda: goly! Jenny I want my clothes back o_0
Jenny: Sheesh! Girls,I said I was a lesbian I never said I was attracted to any of you bunholes.
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It's like with certain 'straight' peers they tend to react has if you're going to start to touch them or try to hook up with them.
It's sort of why I've never felt comfortable telling my close friends my bisexual fanasties.
2007-08-03 09:00:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can tell ME your fantasies!
2007-08-03 11:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what keeps me going. I don't have a fear of death, or of eternal damnation or whatever it is that fuels most people. I'm not happy all the time, and I certainly don't see life as a 'privilege', but I guess that no matter what may be after death, I'm alive now. And whether or not I matter or the world around me matters in the grand scheme of things, I have nothing better to do than keep living. Death would be such a waste of the time I could have. There is so much more to do in this world that I haven't yet (girls, for example), and I'd rather de-funk myself by experimenting with the unknown than sulking about the mundane and unchangeable. Of course, some times I doubt myself, and think maybe it would be better to quit and just end it all, but then I decide that "hey, if I'm bored now, what do you think eternity will feel like?" Note: Boredom and depression go hand in hand for me, so I often equate them.
2016-05-17 09:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad, is a normal reaction....let me give you an example....let say that you, are a straight girl, and you have been sleeping over with your friends, been to the movies, shared clothes, and so on....but then you tell them that you have won the grand price of the lottery....how would they react....would they go away or would they love you more and be with you all the time because of your money that you have won...........well in reality, we tend to react to news, with a surprise, but later on, that reaction will make us realize how valuable you are, no matter what....even though I am not saying that what you are turning into is correct...but everybody has their own choices in life....it can be for good or it can be for bad........the results at the end will let it know.
I would like to know if you can look up the word "Normal" in a dictionary, and tell me the meaning of it....and Now, ask yourself, is it normal, for me to desire, to be a lesbian, or gay, or bisexual....? This world tends to lean our thinking in a wrong direction, not in the correct, right, straight direction for our own good. Let me tell you another example....is it true that Pizza Hut commercials, tend to put the pizza, so hot and tastefull, that even when we are in our homes, is like if we could even smell the pizza, because it atracts, catches our eyes, our senses....and usually, we go and get a pizza....but that commercial didnt' told us, that, that's junk food, that it has a lot of cholesterol, and that can lead to heart deseases....but they don't care about and we tend to listen and live with it...but actually our lives are in danger, sooner or later, we are going to be having problems with our heart arteries and our high cholesterol and high blood pressure....anyway. See how the world tends to lean our thinking in the wrong direction, and that's only one, example....think about pornography, thru internet, or chatting thru internet...and so on....anyway, take care and good luck...write back if you want.
2007-08-03 09:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by israelmoya20 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My so-called "best friend" stopped talking to me after she thought I made a pass at her. As if.
2007-08-03 09:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Robin W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely ask them how they feel about gay people first. From then you'll know if they will accept you for who you are. And if they are truely your bestfriend they will love you for who you are.
Good Luck!
2007-08-03 09:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately I typically cut stupid people like that out of my life very quickly.
2007-08-03 16:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That way to true!
If i make a point to declare I'm Bi they seem to think I'm Slutty.
2007-08-03 09:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by I. P. Freely 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you think people should behave towards you when you tell them personal things like discussing your sex life?
I don't want to hear that from my friends, straight or gay. I'll just walk away and not say much to you after that. Normal people don't have to discuss these things.
Really, do you want to hear about MY sex life?
2007-08-03 09:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
i know what you mean!
it's like, i've known you forever, and haven't tried anything with you before.
they act like we're gonna start hitting on them suddenly.
2007-08-03 09:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by fauna 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i grew up with my friends and i came out last year now im glad cuz they cool with it
2007-08-03 09:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋