She says Im' crowding her. We are not close anymore and Im trying to get close to her again but she says to back off and give her space. I always seem to bring up our problems by just asking if I was being pushy or not and she got upset saying I always bring it up. I feel we need to talk out our issues until we can make things better, am I right or wrong?
2007-08-03 08:33:34 · 4 answers · asked by give_me_somedat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to couseling. Maybe you are just annoying her by being pushy.
2007-08-03 09:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by greysfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, if she needs that much space maybe you should pull the divorce papers out. it sounds like shes being a real B. i think that you are right about you are doing by wanting to be close to her and try to make it better and try to talk about things and work things out. so i applaud you for that most men wouldnt do that it usually is the wife asking about why thse problems are happening. if she doesnt want to talk and she doesnt want to make things better i think maybe you should move on and find someone else that deserves your time and effort becuase while you are trying to be a man and an adult about the situation she is being childish and saying she doesnt want to talk and she wants space. ask her is she unhappy? does she want a divorce? because thats not fair to you what she is doing to you. like i said honey you deserve better! go find someone that deserves all the great things you have to offer.
2007-08-03 08:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you suggest marriage counseling - if she is trying to avoid beingclose to you - there is something going on with her -
if she refuses marriage counseling, then I would seriously consider separation.
2007-08-03 08:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my friend she dont love you no mo
2007-08-03 08:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋