Over the past two years, my boyfriend has been over- domineering and chauvenistic. I have started working out and challenged him to a wrestling match and I beat him! The bet was that if he lost, he'd wear panties for a day. No biggie, but he couldn't stand getting beat by his girlfriend so he wanted a rematch. Double or nothing. Well. I kept beating him and beating him and I had to keep adding to the bet. By the end of the night, he owed me four months of serving me, dressed in drag. A dress, bra, panties, makeup, stockings, high heels... the works! I had a purse picked out for him and among the outfits I have picked out for him to serve me in are a pink playboy bunny outfit, french maid outfit... basically all of the stuff he's made me wear for the past 2 years.
My plans we all for naught however since he backed out.
Now, I know of a way to FORCE him to carry out the bet, but I don't know if I should. On the other hand, he has a whole....
2007-08-03 08:14:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
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2007-08-03 08:16:53 · update #1
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2007-08-03 08:17:10 · update #2
I am not in to fetish wear and this is not the place to post these questions. Your boyfriend needs a new girlfriend.
2007-08-03 08:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
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2016-12-19 23:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 23:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by norman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I can't believe it. Who is answering this question? Does no one have a sense of humor anymore?
Absolutely make him go through with it. Make sure he realizes how lucky he is. When my husband loses a bet his humiliation is very public.
Fetishes, not the right place to post the question? Get over it people. Why on earth are we all of the sudden so offended by simple pranks? This will not have a lasting impact on him. He shouldn't even suffer embarrassment because it's in the privacy of their home. Good heavens.
Go for it, girlfriend. If he was a real man he's live up to his obligations.
2007-08-03 08:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by catsovermen 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
If being over domineering and chauvenistic bothers you,
well maybe you should dump him and find a new boyfriend.
that said, he made a bet, he should honor it.
suggest a compromise, stick to the first bet or one outfit.
if you make a bet you should honor it I would, and you know he would want you to honor whatever your end would have been if you lost.
2007-08-03 08:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 18:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by renetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another stupid my-boyfriend-lost-a-bet-and-now-he-has-to- wear-my-undies question.
Don't you people have anything better to do?
Don't you have anything better to spend money on than stupid outfits??? Why not donate some of that surplus cash to a homeless shelter or an animal shelter.
Your muscle is all between your ears.
2007-08-03 11:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would make a bet with you that this entire question is a fantasy you made up.
I would also bet that you are going start in middle school next fall and that you have way too much time on your hands.
2007-08-03 08:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Huh? So immature. Sorry. Why not do something that will benefit you instead, like camping out with u near the beach or a nice fancy dinner?
2016-03-16 06:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. if you make him do that, not only destroying his pride. you can ended up destroying every piece of him, even his confidence. especially because he (as you say) over domineering and chauvenistic. beating him several times had damage his confidence greatly enough. adding the punishment ? I'll be damned if he does that and still normal at the end of the month.
Revoke the punishment, in fact, don't say anything at all. He'll understand by himself about the whole "over- domineering and chauvenistic" arrogance he have before. let him keep his pride. In time, he will be grateful and be loyal to you.
2007-08-03 08:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Xynder 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
As a man he should have to honor his bet so yes!! Just hope that he doesn't enjoy more then you:)
2007-08-03 08:26:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. Man 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋