I've had a major crush on this guy for a while, but he's my friend, what do I do?

Question

So basically, I've been friends with this guy for a year now, but I always had this crush on him from the start. He probably knows I'm not the exact paragon of masculinity, but it's cool and he doesn't mind. Problem is though, to him I'm a great friend, but to me, well, that's another story.

So what do I do? A barrel roll?

Answer 1

Well if he knows your gay and he just thinks of you as a great friend then it is probably best that you keep it to yourself. It might really hurt you if he turns you down.

Answer 2

Been there several times. If he's not gay, stay friends with him. I remember going through the same challenge several times. While I kept up my friendships, I also used to think about those guys when I jacked off. It kind of helped on both fronts.

Answer 3

I'm in, or have been and always will be, in the same position. I told him, he told me he was straight and that was it. We're still bestest buddies, even though I still love him. I'd say tell him if you think there is even the slightest chance he likes you back, because you never know. And you'll always still have your friendship.

Answer 4

Maybe u should tell him that u have a crush on him and that u want to be more then friends.If all else fails and he says he's not interested just tell him your sorry and that you'll stay just friends.

Answer 5

thats the frustrating thing innit 2 want wot u can never have --sorry bro i do understand

Answer 6

if hes not gay just stay friends

Answer 7

if hes not gay just stay friends

Answer 8

well if you really like him then tell him straight up...