Im in the marine corp and my buddy is sleeping with a married woman. her husband is on deployment right now. i feel that this is very wrong. how should i go about confronting him???
2007-08-03 05:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell his unit. They'll be more than glad to take care of it.
If you want your friend to live, tell him, that he will find out. And unless you want a person whose a "trained killer" to be stalking you around town, he better drop this fast.
2007-08-03 05:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by avengress 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it is wrong..ask him if he would like it if say u or someone else was sleeping with his girlfriend /wife if he had one...while he was on deployment....grant it people do get lonely when they are away from their spouses while being deploied but damn, come on she's married and her husband is gone fighting for the same reasons he is...just ask him does he know the trouble that he can and is causing...if that husband found out what do u think he would do...some people do go crazy when they find out stuff like that and some do kill..so try and talk some kind of since into him before something like that happens...hell go to the woman and ask her if she would like it if someone was sleeping with her husband while she was on deployment.......and see how she would like it......bet she wouldn't.......
2007-08-03 06:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, he can do better and it will only be hurtful to her husband. That woman has no respect for herself or others, if she wants to be with your friend, she should leave her husband and let him have an oppotunity to find someone who will be faithful to him. These things never end well, all three of them will end up being hurt or your friend will feel guilty. Not to mention that the husband may become violent and aggressive.
2016-04-01 16:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Lay your cards out on the table. Tell him what a great friend he is and ask him; "what kind of a married woman would sleep around?" "what's wrong with her buddy?"
2007-08-03 05:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he really is a good friend...tell him that what he is doing is wrong on so many levels. What a whore to be sleeping around on her husband while he is deployed. Shame on your friend for him being a part of potentially ruining a marriage.
2007-08-03 05:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its your buddy, tell him straight up. but sometimes you cant push morals into people, so go about it that way, what will happen when her husband comes back and he finds out? your buddy might not survive this one, either way, this "wife' hopefully gets busted. i heard so much about cheating and deplyments since i live the military life, its horrible.
2007-08-03 05:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your business. Either stop being friends or accept that what your buddy does is between himself and his conscience. I agree that he shouldn't be messing around with somebody Else's wife, but it isn't up to you to deal with it. You can tell him how you feel, but so what?
2007-08-03 05:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sit him down with a couple of beers and ask him what's going on....let him know that what he's doing isn't right and he needs to cut things off before he risks losing his career...the military doesn't play games when it comes to that stuff
2007-08-03 06:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I don't believe in cheating but your best bet would proably be to mind your own business.
2007-08-03 05:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by shorte716 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
keep your filthy sewer shut marine.. its none of your business...
2007-08-03 06:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋