I'm living at home, he is living with father, he is getting his own apartment soon. Been married for 4 years, however its not working, still don't know if Im going to file. For now we are "separated".
2007-08-03 05:48:48 · 8 answers · asked by None 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lynn, I am not sure if there are "legal" rules, or laws for separation. I think it depends on where you live. For instance, in the US there are states that recognize being "legally separated". However, I do not think that there are many states where those laws still exist. I would advise that you speak to an attorney, or if you are unable to retain a private one, seek legal aid. I have read your prior posts, and feel that you need to do what is in the best interest of your little girl, and yourself. Your husband is not as good of a father that you think. He would not be using your daughter, by feeding her with any negative information about her mommy. I despise it when adults use their children as a means to get to their spouse. The child is the one who suffers the most in these tumultuous situations. Your little girl should only be told the minimal amount of information, and it should be explained to her simply, as she is too young to grasp any of the behavior that she is witnessing.It is far better for your daughter to have two good parents that are apart, rather than two incompatible parents living together. E-mail me if you need an ear, or would like to just vent. Take care of yourself first so you can be the best mom for your daughter.
2007-08-06 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are separated. I just went through that for 3 years and I recently filed for divorce. As for the rules, there really are no rules. If you are working on getting back to gether I hope that you are spending time together or talking to a counselor. If it is a situation where you think it can not be rectified you may want to file. It's hard a t first but time is a excellent healer. I wish you all the best!!!
2007-08-03 12:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no SET RULES. You make up your own rules and break your own rules. I dated when I was separated and my wife dumped the man she was having an affair with while we were separated. A separation is a time to discover who you are away from your spouse and to decide if you prefer that part of you enough to make it permanent.
2007-08-03 13:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not legally - so if one of you buys something, rings up debt, etc. the other may be liable.
Laws vary from state to state, but many have legal services where you can talk to a lawyer for an hour relatively cheap. Or check online.
Have the two of you tried counseling? It might clarify things one way or another.
2007-08-03 12:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by stenobrachius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you to have be a part that long do you to still love1 another? sow i say move on to the fact that Yul will not be back together and start thinking about what makes you happier not what makes him happy remember life is short !you have loved and lost sow love your self now OK
2007-08-03 12:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have tried counseling and that does not work, then it is time to get on with your life!!! Him getting his own apartment tells me he does not want it to work, and probally has someone else, hope that did not hurt.
2007-08-03 12:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by jake5282 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you need to get his answer on that.just be discreet and not do anything that will hurt your divorce.
2007-08-03 13:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by k man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have all the fun you can sexy.....
2007-08-03 18:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mike H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋