Im talking about when a couple breaks up 3+ times and keep going out and have you ever been in one.
2007-08-03 04:44:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ya, I am talking about me kind of because Im in one. I was about to get back together for the third time but Im going to end it instead because I hate it. I was just wondering what everyone else thought
2007-08-03 04:52:55 · update #1
Their real name is Bootie Calls and yes they are stupid. Go find a new one.
2007-08-03 04:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by terminator 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would have to say they are pathetic. I am going into the eighth grade and i no a couple who have broken up over 30 times since sixth grade and im not kidding they will break up about every other day atleast twice a week sometimes. It really bugs me cuz he says he doesnt like her and they get back together . Sorry to tell u but get outta that relationship hes not good enough for u if u keep breaking up thats not a realtionship .
2007-08-03 05:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by x_love me_x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I broke up with my boyfriend 8 times in two years beacuse I didn't trust him, because he cheated on me and because I thouht that I should just be single. If you are the one breaking up maybe you don't feel secure with him and feel this is the only way to make him know that if he doesn't 'behave' you have no issues leaving. If he is the one breaking up with you (I know this sounds hypocritical) but most guys don't play mind games like us girls do so I'm guessing he may want to play the field--my advice is talk to him about what your plans are (if this is a longterm relationship or not) and see if you can meet eye to eye. If this was meant to be it will be-eventually If not let it go and move on.
** My BF and I live together now and have a baby on the way--he is so inspisring and have done alot of crap to me in the past but he has grown as a person as I have as well and we can't be with out each other--This took a LONG time to learn so hang in there if it means something to you which it sounds like it does!
GL!
2007-08-03 04:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was in one and it sucked. I was always upset because he seemed to be holding me at a distance. They cause a lot of pain and frustration and are usually just unhealthy relationships. Unless someone comitts it is just a waste of time. Either get out or fix your problems so you don't keep breaking up. Breaking up means that one of you is just running from your problems. Rather than talking it out you two just break up. Its no good and will never work that way.
2007-08-07 09:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Katy I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember being 15 and doing the same thing. It's being young and your decision making isn't
fully matured. For me, I was just too young to be in a relationship. I think it's just more fun to be happy go lucky and not get serious about anyone. You have such a short time to be young and free and such a long time to be an adult. Have fun with your young life, there are plenty of years to be grown-up making serious decisions for yourself and hopefully a family some day.
2007-08-08 06:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Steven C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think their stupid, but i use to be in one, in matter of fact, im still with the guy we've been together 3yrs. But it thats just how some relationships are, you've been together for such a long time and any lil thing seems to piss you or him off. And ya'll break up!! Atleast thats what i think lol...
2007-08-03 05:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥★ MeLii ☆ DaNi★♥ஐ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proverbs 4:23 -
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.
Every time you invest your time, heart, will and emotions in another person you loose a part of yourself in the break up. I strongly suggest, guarding your heart. Excersize a bit of self-control. Contrary to popular belief you can control "who you fall in love with". Save yourself, body and soul, for your husband. Think of this as a water balloon. Everytime you give a piece of yourself away, prick the balloon. How many times can you prick the balloon until there is nothing left for your husband?
2007-08-03 05:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by ElioraImmanuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal for teenagers to do this. But if you feel bad about it, don't go back to him.......That's the bottom line. If you do, you will end up with years, and I mean years of misery.
It doesn't matter if you love him or not. You will feel better when you find a more compatible person to be with. And when you're old like me, you won't even care. Be strong for yourself and kick him to the curb.
Been there and glad it's over,
Granny Knows
2007-08-03 05:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Granny Knows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think they are crazy, the return to a bad relationship is usually down to lack of sense and self esteem.
If you are talking about you, next time you split make it a permanent one, get your life back and be happy, can you remember a time when your relationship wasn't such a drama?
Go and be happy life is way too short for drama.
Good luck
2007-08-03 04:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been in 1
2007-08-09 19:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋