I had a horrible relationship with some jerk a few years ago. Everyone still laughs about it sometimes, they say it's like the vonage commercial where the geek leaves the girl in the ferrari (i drive a nice car and the guy was a geek). I'm not proud of the relationship, but I'm over it and so is everyone else, except my boyfriend. When we get in a fight or something he gets mad and mentions him. He'll say things like "o so that fat a**hole u used 2 date is better than me?" and for the record he was slightly chunky not fat, and things like that. when i threaten 2 leave him over this and other stupid behavior he does, he says things like "o i can see what a great judge of character u r, look at ur ex" etc. Im feed up with him waking the dead so 2 speak, its an old topic he cant seem 2 get over. he says it eats him up inside that i once had a serious relationship b4 him, he says in a way it feels like i cheated on him!! Any advice?
2007-08-03 04:40:28 · 4 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Angie212 this type of abuse is very uncool. Your past is just that, it is yesterday and as such the door should be closed on it. Everyone that I know has a past and some skeletons in the closet, and I'm willing to bet my next paycheque that this guy that is being so emotionally abuse also has one. Fact is that you did not cheat on him and if he is so immature then you might be best to kick him to the curb and go and find a man who will treat you with respect that everyone deserves. I'm total stranger and do not know either of you, but from what you have explained I would suggest that the future with this guy will only increase with demands and controlling behaviour. It certainly isn't normal for a male to feel so threatened by a past lover. As a matter of fact this ex of yours might be worth a second look if he treated you better than this guy. Best of luck to you and hope that you do find a happy relationship and receive the feelings of being wanted, needed and loved by your equal partner.
2007-08-03 04:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this guy your dating now has serious issues, and I'm not joking around. He's very insecure and jealous and needs help for this. I can tell he is already pushing you away and he will eventually succeed if he continues on like this. Maybe its time for you to be single and take a closer look at why your attracting the wrong kind of men.
2007-08-03 12:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say less of the things to hurt each others
do more of the things to love each others
2007-08-03 11:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out he is emotionally abusing you!! good luck!!!
2007-08-03 12:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋