I'm not sure if I am one or not. I have nothing against them but I don't want to be a lesbo! It's like, some of my teachers, all I want to do is please them. Nothing sexual or gross, I just want to do better in that subject or something. There's a girl in my class who I didn't really know very well, I got invited to a sleepover which she was going to as well. We got on REALLY well, even though we've never really spoken before. All the other people got annoyed because we were chatting amoungst ourselves. Another thing, we always get almost exactly the same mark in every subject at school. We're both really competetive, it was the same at the party, we both won most of the games or came second to each other. We hugged when it was time to go home even though we weren't very close before that weekend. Now I can't wait for the summer holidays to end to see her at school again, like I said, nothing sexual, I just really want to be her friend. Help? Am I a lesbian because of this?
2007-08-03 04:35:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh heck no. Being emotionally close to another girl or seeking the approval of your female teachers doesn't make you a lesbian. Heck, being attracted to other girls doesn't make you a lesbian either. You have to be sexually involved with a girl/woman to be a lesbian. You're nowhere close. Don't sweat it and don't worry about being close to this girl you mentioned.
2007-08-03 04:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. You are not a lesbian for having a friend of the same sex or hugging. If that were true, everyone in the South would be bisexual.
2007-08-03 05:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a lesbian just because you want to be some girl's friend.
2007-08-03 04:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by HoodTookMeUnda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are looking for friends.
If you like boys you are at most bisexual, but from what you have said you don't sound Bi or Lesbian.
2007-08-03 04:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes and imagine if you could taste her. If that excites you then you are. If it grosses you out then your not. By the way, it excites me!
2007-08-03 04:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by booger 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no you are not a lesbo because you don't like her.
2007-08-03 05:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Indian princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋