2007-08-03 01:23:15 · 34 answers · asked by Jeremy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She said I should start seeing other people and find a better match. She has lost all emotion. She also has spent the night (with girl friends, she says) away from her dorm several times. But she won't admit there is someone else. I love this girl with all my heart and I want to have a family with her. Looks like I'm screwed, huh?
2007-08-05 11:19:43 · update #1
Let her go. If she really loves you she will come back realizing the mistake she made.
2007-08-10 10:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by mochachreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says that the chance to be away at school is more important than being together , it is a pretty strong clue that things are not looking good. When she said she" wanted time to think" that meant she has found someone new" The second to the last line tells it all. It is over and all there is for you, is to sign the divorce papers and move on , as she already has.
2007-08-09 17:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over. Take some time and look at your relationship. Despite what you feel right now it obviously was not healthy. What could you have done differently? I know that she is leaving you and that is on her, but if you ever want the chance of having a healthy relationship where you can start a family in the future you have to learn, what you can from each woman on the way. Be honest with yourself and with her. Since it is over get some closure call her a ***** to her face and, I don't know like, pee on something of her's. Sorry to say, but knowing it is OVER makes it all allot easier than just wonder who and what she is doing.
2007-08-10 13:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by lissieJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she made it pretty clear huh! I wouldn't waste your time, she isn't going to come around. I know that is a harsh reality but it is what it is. Don't let her drag you down you need to do what she said to do.....move on and don't look back. It sounds like she had some influence from her friends.
I hope the best for you, keep your chin up and find someone who will love you no matter what!
2007-08-10 11:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by robink71668 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has moved one, but let me tell you that she is porbably having and affair, but as soon as that sucker leaves her she will be back, if thats what you want. But if you dont want her back after that just move one dont even give her a second look, sound like you a nice guy and it is hard to find men like you now in days so look for some one that will appriciate you.
2007-08-10 12:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mary! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reconsider the family thing. She doesn't seem to be ready for that step. She is enjoying her freedom to much. It sounds like you two are at different stages in your life. I would move on if I were you, trying to keep her is only going to make things worse. Give her space and maybe she will realize that life with you is what she wants. Good luck...
2007-08-09 14:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by RPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want her back then you need to try to get back to what got her with you in the first place. Romance her.
If she is that important to you then I think you should do your best to win her back. Talk to her and find out what happened. Tell her that you love her. It's a risk but it's worth it if you really love her and want her back. The worst thing is if you are back where you are now. If so then you just need to start healing and giving yourself time to get over her. But I hope it works out for you. :)
2007-08-10 06:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife wanted to let you down softly, instead of telling you it was over. Whichever way you look at it, it is over and you have to move on! Check out myspace or Hot Or Not, there are plenty more beautiful women out there looking for some action!
Decide to move on and enjoy your life, you deserve it!
Best regards.
Darrell.
2007-08-09 19:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience there are a few key lines that it is over. She gave you 2. If I could have told you before I would have prepared you for it.
When you hear:
I need to think
It is not you its me
I need some space
Let's see other people
A "friend" whose name just keeps coming up or stopping over to their dorm
Move on and if you can dump them before they dump you.
Look for love elsewhere.She is not the one. Good luck
2007-08-07 16:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how far off she went to school, but it sounds to me like she found someone else. Check all the facts before you make any rash decisions.
2007-08-03 02:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by tigrompy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look on the internet for a good price on round trip ticket to somewhere fun... Las Vegas, Hawii or what ever...
Lock down your checking account, credit cards etc.. but leave the one open you are carrying and take 5 days off... it will help..
Then send her the bill....
2007-08-03 01:59:33 · answer #11 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋