Ok im 20 years old, I don't have much experience with women. ive had only two short relationships with girls. But i find some men cute or handsome some would call it. For example i will be walking down the street ill see a guy, and ill say ooh hes handsome or cute in my head. I have a gay friend and i find him so cute he soo clean and handsome you know the metro sexual look. Im metro too, And i often inspect men to see what i can do to make myself look better, and i criticize them. Like oh he has a "nice body, or i like his hair i want that". But i don't have any sexual feelings!!! Really its more just attraction to good looks. Again i don't feel or wish to have sex with a guy, the thought of it makes me gag. I love women even though ive never had sex with one or much experience, when i have wet dreams i see women. I don't want to have sex with a guy i just think there cute. Now is that gay? I tried to stop thinking about it everytime i see a cute looking guy but its weird. THANKS!
2007-08-03 00:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by FlyHighDude 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't believe So... I think that if you are not attracted in a Romantic sort of Way than you may just have Feminine attributes! Girls tell other Girls they are Beautiful all the time and never once feel attracted or Want to have Sex with them! Does that make sense? If you are attracted to Women and want to be with Woman then I would say, that I don't think you are Gay! You may later down the Road decide that you like both Men and Women... but, for now I think you are just trying to find yourself...and seeing in other Men things that you feel would make a "Better" you!
2007-08-03 00:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Reagan's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be a metro sexual or just curious. When you start acting on these feelings, like dating only men or having sex with them then your gay. But there's nothing wrong with being gay, whats important is that you stay true to yourself. I'm not gay but i have some gay friends and I accept them for who they are, beside they have hooked me up with some amazing women:)
2007-08-03 00:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by lcac31 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im agirl and can say I find other women attractive however I have no sexual fellings whatso ever. Its only natural to appreciate other peoples bodies regardless of sex. It doesnt make you gay to think"That guy is hot/handsome/cute" etc.
This is nothing to say you are gay or not...its just part of life.
2007-08-03 00:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte F 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i take advantage of those words interchangeably. i do no longer think of there is a lot of a difference. what's the version in those words for on the instant human beings?? it particularly is probable very comparable. besides there could be somebody that i think of is punctiliously warm yet somebody else would think of they are grotesque as hell. Who particularly knows...because of the fact the previous asserting is going 'splendor is in the attention of the beholder'. i'm a gay guy and that i think of I even have terrible trend sense... assuming that one and all gay adult men have good trend sense at a similar time as fairly flattering remains stereotyping. good success! =)
2016-11-11 02:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with men exclusively is generally the big give away that you might be gay. It's actually normal to notice attractiveness in whatever gender.
2007-08-03 01:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by EB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay at all. It is natural for people to look at the same sex and call them cute, handsome, or ugly.
2007-08-03 00:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by joe bori 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not, " Manly " to say a guy is cute.
If you said that to me about a guy
I would think you were, " On the down- lo ".
Yes Gay.
2007-08-03 00:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're just a little bit bi-sexual, no big deal.
2007-08-03 00:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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Nothing 'makes' you gay. You either are or you aren't.
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2007-08-03 00:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋