Everybody hates me...for no reason?

Question

My life is way horrible. Every time I go out, people look at me in a mean way. I say hi, they ignore me. I would go out with my sister sometimes, or my mother. They would know everyone and get along with everyone. It's like people WHO DON'T EVEN KNOW ME is trying their best to make me feel bad by pretending I'm not there and ignoring me. I have 0 friends. My cousins came up to visit us just tonight. All this time I was dreaming of starting a great friendship with my cousin (The one that is my age.) But... She totally ignored me. And I could tell she was giving off an attitude. Yet, she smiled and talked more with my sister. I wanted to cry. I held back the tears until now. I'm only 15... My life has been so horrible. What should I do?

Answer 1

hey calm down okay. maybe u give off a bad / moody vibe. even if people dont like u smile and try not to be annoying or desperate to make friends. you'll be fine. dont give people a lot of attitude and be friendly and outgoing. YOU'LL MAKE FRIENDS

Answer 2

Sometimes we want something so bad that we say and do all the wrong things, and people don't understand that. You see my little darling I remember being so much like you at age 15. As I grew older and became more comfortable with who I am. I learned that if people don't like who I am I don't care. I like who I am . You must realize you are going threw a very hard time at your age of 15. I say this to you so you will understand where you are at with your self. It all starts from the inside and then out. Like your self first, and become your own best friend and as you grow with this you will also grow in friendships and relationships. You can't make intimate friendships over night ya know. Time takes time. Relax and be your self and you will be OK.
Understand your self and what you are going threw, so much right now. Lots of changes. Don't be so hard on your self . Some times we are our own worst enemy. I think you sound like a sweetheart. Good luck and I hope that I have been some what of a help to you. God Bless you .

Answer 3

There is a song I used to sig. Nobody likes me, everybody hates me. Think i'll go eat some worms! Long, slim slimmy worms. Itsy bitsy tiny worms, great big ugly yellow worms! First you bite their heads off then you suck the juice out, then you throw the rest away. Long slim slimmy worms ittsy bittsy tiny worms etc etc. I used to sing this when friends made fun of me.
I dont think you life is all that horrible, just things have happened to make you feel that way! You cant give in and waaaaa about it. You need to show you are confident and care about yourself! Here is a story! Last year, after raising kids for almost 30 years, I got to go to Hawaii and for the first time in all those years, the kids wernt with us! Yippppeeeee
I went to one of the conference my hubby went to for work! The man speaking was Jack Cantrell. Not sure of spelling! He is the man who wrote all the Chicken Soup for the soul books! He was awesome! He told all these wonderful stories. And some sad ones too! The one thing he talked most about was attitude and how we think about ourselves and how that effects how other people see us and treat us! The point is to hold your head up high- no matter what! Love yourself no matter how hard that is. Show confidence, even when yu are not confident. Smile when you dont feel like it! Be positive! Be persistant. Being 15 years old is very tuff! I remember being 15. Boy did I hate life! I ahd no friends either and was in a very strict family. Teens can be quite cruel to eachother. So no matter how they treat you, hold your head up high. Realize they arent worth the time of day. They dont deserve you! Soon you will have friends! Join a church youth group, a sport team, a school club and start making friends! Things will get better just keep looking up! The next time you go out, tryto find Chicken Soup for the kids Soul. You wil really enjoy reading it and I think you will learn a lot and get help with your problems.

Answer 4

Honey life will get better, These feelings come with the age. I felt the seact same way when I was 15. I didn't get aalong with my parents very often and I locked myself up in my room 90% of the time. But after a while I grew out of it. And as for the stangers ignoring you... They just didn't know you. don't take it personal. Everything will work out, try and stay positive. If you ever need anyone to talk to Im here. :) hope I helped.

Answer 5

I don't hate Prince. I love the song Purple Rain, it's touching. But I can't say I have researched enough to judge the severity of his childhood, however being locked in a cupboard for 2 hours alone was something Michael Jackson did suffer with alongside the beatings and being, as he describes, 'torn up'. It's a lot to compare to.

Answer 6

I was the same when I was your age. I always thought things would eventually work out for me, but no such luck. Now I'm 20, friendless, and have absolutely no social skills. I don't even venture out of the house unless I take a few swigs from my flask beforehand on the off chance of casual conversation from the cashier ringing up my next week's supply of booze. If I can give you one piece of advice, I'd tell you to bypass all that trying to make friends crap and go straight to alcoholism because it's cold out there, and something's gotta give.

Just kidding. I don't venture out of the house at all.

Answer 7

Seems that either there is something really wrong with you that is putting people off, or you are imagining all this even when people are acting friendly. Time for a talk with your sister, maybe, Tell her how you admire her popularity and ask her to help you.

Answer 8

let me tell you. no one likes having no friends, but from personal experience, its times when you finally break and dont care what anyone thinks of you when you find a friend. there will always be jerks who think they are better than you but there are also people just like you thinking the same thing as you "everyone hates me". it may not be the prettiest person or the most good looking but its someone you can relate too. stick in there and God bless- rylee

Answer 9

My life is the same way, I'm 16. I've tried everything to make people give me a chance, and nobody does. Nobody has ever tried to get to know me, they just start rumors and stuff. Try and find other people who are like you and talk to them and try and become friends.

Answer 10

Well personaly hygen could be one or the way you dress oor look, im sorry to hear this. but maybe just switch up you wardorbe and spiffy yourself up some(make yourself look pretty) and have a lot of self confidence in yourself. hope this helps you out and good luck.