there is a boy and i actually dont like him at all but i keep on having these dreams that " involve " him i really dont like him hes really rude but it bugs me that he follows me into my sleep :-I
2007-08-02 18:12:37 · 11 answers · asked by harrypotter#1fan 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
when i say involve mean like making out
2007-08-02 18:22:48 · update #1
you probably think about him too much.
dreams are your brain going over what you thoughts, what you saw, what you heard, etc.
so, if you are thinking about him, hearing about him, or seeing him, thats probably the reason he's in your dreams.
unless you mean something way different by the word involved....
2007-08-02 18:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by (Linzee18) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his rudeness is directed at you and/or those around you, it could be a simple matter of self-preservation. Your mind wants to "fix the problem" (i.e. the boy being rude to you during waking life), so it reorganizes his behavior in a way that makes you feel better. It is a classical "defense mechanism" (a fancy phrase for the brain's intricate coping strategies) and it is perfectly normal.
This is a nice starter article on defense mechanisms:
http://psychology.about.com/od/dindex/g/defensemech.htm
(sorry, it has a pop-up)
This Wikipedia article is nice, but more thorough:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defense_mechanism#List_of_defense_mechanisms
Peace!
2007-08-02 18:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by quietthunder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to dream about a boy I thought I didn't like but realized I had a big crush on him. He bugged me and teased me but then we became great friends and that was bad because he viewed me "as one of the guys" and never knew I liked him.
2007-08-02 18:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol been there done that and married the guy lol. The fact he is showing you attention by bugging you is what makes him stick in your head. In your dreams do you like him or hate him?
2007-08-02 18:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all dream about weird stuff, people we like or don't like. Usually we dream of someone we are around, or maybe even someone who we have never even seen. It's only a dream!!
2007-08-02 18:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by sash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, i was actually afraid of someone i sat behind in 8th grade math class (he was just really tall and bigger than all the other boys, not like he was gonna kill us or something) and i ended up having a dream that i married him in my mom's kitchen...it's totally normal to dream about people you don't like or even know (like famous people)
2007-08-02 18:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by me-k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
b/c u probably think about him all the time, the fact that hes annoying and u dont like him. just dont think about him
2007-08-02 18:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i liked this one guy and i while i did i dreamt about him all the time,but all dreams of rejection :-(
2007-08-04 09:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because he irritates you so much that he is always in your mind and you end up having drams about him...
; )
2007-08-02 19:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it. Dreams dont give HIV :)
2007-08-02 19:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋