i am 17 and i just found out im pregnant...i kno ur gonna say i shouldnt have been having sex...but it wasnt consensual. i am terrified!!! i am against abortion and giving the baby up 4 adoption. my parents kicked me out...they didnt believe the sex wasnt consensual. i am currently staying with a teacher i have known basically my entire life.
when can you hear the heart beat?
when can you feel the first movments?
what is it like to go through labor and delivery naturally? i kno its painful....but other than that?
2007-08-02 17:06:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the police are investigating. but it was dark and i didnt see the mans face. he had on big sunglasses and a hood....and most of the time i had my eyes closed...
2007-08-02 17:19:59 · update #1
when can you hear the heart beat?
Answer: around 6 weeks
when can you feel the first movments?
Answer: around the 16 week
what is it like to go through labor and delivery naturally?
Without medication? Painful as hell. With an epidural...very easy
i kno its painful....but other than that?
Answer: Hummm don't understand this question.
Listen you're young, and you have your whole life ahead of you, don't ruin your life. Get back into school, and go to college, these days not even a bachelors degree is not good enough...you have to get a masters.
my advice to you is have the child, but find a wonderful couple out there that is having problems conceiving. Keep it an open adoption so that you can visit your baby for their rest of his/her life. But go through an agency.
Sweetie I know this is tough...good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-08-02 17:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry your parents kicked you out. That isn't going to help anyone. If it wasn't consentual, why haven't you gone to the police? If you're keeping the baby, then I suggest you go to the library or book store and read "What to Expect When You're Expecting" it will answer every single pregnancy question you can come up with and then some. There is a chapter for every month of pregnancy.
You can usually hear the heartbeat at about 12 weeks when you have your 1st ultrasound. The first movements are about the same time (3 to 5 months) and as far as natural labor, it's tough but obviously bareable or we wouldn't keep doing it. You can also have medications or an epidural to make it more comfortable if you plan ahead.
2007-08-02 17:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by STACEY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally you can hear the heartbeat around 12 weeks along. First movements will feel like gas bubbles or little tickles as early as about 18 weeks but it depends on what way the baby is facing. You need to find a lawyer and take care of the fact that charges should be pressed if it was non-consensual. He still owes you child support either way the court decides. Also have your teacher take you down and get on medicaid. That way you can provide for your baby's health and get proper prenatal care. I can't help you too much for the labor and delivery part. I was't able to have a "normal" delivery let alone natural.
2007-08-02 17:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by starfire978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see it @ i believe 6 weeks. You can hear it around 10. I felt my daughter move around 16 weeks. I had an epidural. Sorry. I didn't feel a thing. Good luck and remember everyones pregnancy is different. Your parents will eventually come around. Just give them some time.
2007-08-02 17:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by mommyto2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister was 17 when she found out and u can hear the heart beat about 14 weeks and at 5 months u feel movement labor with contractions do hurt but theirs also pain medicine they give u for ur contractions but all the pain u think u feel and if ur scared get an epidural i did i felt nuthing i was numb from the waist down best meds i ever got don't worry theirs alot of young moms out here but what are u saying u got rapped.....
2007-08-02 17:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by mary m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like 3 or 6 weeks
2007-08-02 17:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww....I'm sorry. Dear, you should have your teacher take you to planned parenthood or she should accompany you to your doctor appts. They will answer any and every question you will have.
2007-08-02 17:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 weeks
20 weeks
hurts like hell. its like being ripped in 2.
2007-08-02 17:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋