Sometimes cheating is not the fault at 100% of the cheater;specially when a strong and persistent temptation exists and is available easily.
2007-08-02 15:18:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The problem is temptation comes from a woman like Carmen Electra or Pamela Anderson, more or less.
Very hard to resist. God help me!!
2007-08-02 15:31:13 · update #1
The flesh is weak and it's only by your faithfulness to God that you can overcome earthly weakness. God will give you the strength you need if you ask Him.
2007-08-02 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dianne m 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i repeat this to myself when i am faced with a strong temptation
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
Beliving that God is faithful, you can get out of any temptation before you
2007-08-02 16:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by MyOnlineLife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless someone is being held at gunpoint, and forced to cheat, than...guess what??? They have the power to JUST SAY NO! There is NO EXCUSE to cheat on a spouse. If temptation is around...leave. If you have to have sex with someone else, end your currant relationship first. Just don't get your feelings hurt when your ex ends up with a good-looking sexy partner, and your temptress has dumped you for their next victim. Good Luck.
2007-08-02 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Diane G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the cheater should avoid these strong temptations and tell these temptations that he is a married man and for that temptation to get away from him. That is as simple as that my friend the cheater. All you have to do is say no thanks I am happily married sorry but no thanks and go away. impolite? yes but saved your marriage. don't be a jerk.If you are looking for an excuse to cheat find a better one than this one. not buying it buster.
2007-08-02 15:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by katie d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are absolutely right. persistent temptation exists and is available easily that's why we have 70% divorce in this country . all you have to do is be strong or say no good luck.
2007-08-02 15:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by michael1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help before the temptation is to hard to bare. Stay a way from lust because that is all that it is. It can be controlled because you love your wife and respect her. It would not be worth losing every thing for nothing bacause in the end it will not be worth the cost. Remove yourself from this because cheating is always a choice and you can say no. There are to many STD's out there that are not worth killing your wife while taking yourself out to! There are things going on out there that even a condom won't keep you safe from. Get personal counseling to do the right thing. take care.
2007-08-02 15:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for strength to resist temptation and think about how it would hurt you knowing your wife might be trying to resist the same temptation!
2007-08-02 15:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by califgypsy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe this for a second. i don't believe in cheating. if you are going to cheat you should leave your partner first. if you can't be loyal then let your partner go.
Cheating is wrong no matter the temptation.
2007-08-02 15:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Rhonda Rabbit 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Pam Andersen and Carmen Electra are totally cartoonlike, plastic women. They have both had countless plastic surgeries. Get real, guy. Any slimeball can cheat, it takes a man to be a faithful husband.
2007-08-02 15:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to not speak to this girl anymore. Period. I don't care how you are involved (work together- own a company together, whatever) if she made it clear she wants you to cheat on your wife with her you have to cut her out of your life otherwise it IS your fault if you have a weak moment around her and cheat, you were basically asking for it if you don't.
Be a man if you want her - leave your wife otherwise get rid of the other woman all together. You can't have both!
2007-08-02 15:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by ct_girl02 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Corinthians 10:13 says that God doesn't allow any temptation that we cannot resist. This doesn't mean it won't be difficult...it just means if you want to resist bad enough, you can. If you give in, it isn't because you couldn't help it...it's because you didn't want to badly enough.
2007-08-02 15:27:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋