Friends blowing me off?

Question

am almost 19 and I don’t even know the people I can put my trust in lately. I had a couple best friends that just turned on me and just blow me off alot now. my other friends seem to also do this. People that I used to hang with now their actin to different, I’m still the same person, why doesn’t anybody listen? Alot of them say they have to do something with their girlfriend, not sure if its true or they just dont want to hang out with me. I hate to say it but they have changed for the worse now that they have girlfriends, thats y I dont ever want a girlfriend, I cant imagine being like that to my friends and just blowing them off. So
What do you do when somebody lets you down,
and you wanna say something but you can’t cause their not around? Can somebody please just explain to me
What happened to the way that we always said we’d be (me and my close friends)?
Right now I dunno why I push through the pain that I got through,
And I’m losin’ hope. Give me one reason not

Answer 1

dont put yourself in that position. love is coming between but it will leave and come again. maybe they need time. have u said anything to them? are u sure you've been 100% cool to them and put in your share of time? maybe you were lacking in friendship. i know, i have expierence. right now im in the middle of it. so maybe you should think back. good luck

Answer 2

it has nothing to do with them having girlfriends, because if someone wanted to do something they would do it, it sounds like to me they are giving you excuses after excuses. time to wake up. if your friends keep blowing you off leave them alone and let them come back whenever they come back to you. you have to have a life of your own without your friends. and to have friends like these that you clame you have you dont need friends like that anyways..so go out and make some new friends! get a hobby! play a sport go to work and make some friends. have you done something to make them mad or turn them off that they are acting that way? oh well, i say its there loss if they dont want to be your friend or hang out with you. let it go. you cant make someone be your friend or make someone love you. just because ppl said they will always be something doesnt neccessarily mean that. i have a best friend i new for 8years and i always thought wed be closer then ever and now i go days and weeks and months without talking to her, so who ever said alot of things? find new friends and worry about other things. life is to short to worry about why is someone not your friend. i dont know why you let it get to you talking about push through the pain and loosing hope..get a life..its not that serious i can see if you were dying from aids or something..its just a friend..forget those loosers!