My husband, my best friend, her husband and I went out for a couple's dinner last week. My husband was very late so the three of us had a couple of drinks while we waited for him. We got a bit typsy. My friend went to the bathroom and her husband and I were left alone. Somehow, we started talking about the pictures on my phone. he wanted to see them but I said no because they were inappropriate. He kept asking to see them so I gave in and showed him one of my breasts (I just had them done) He did not act weird or like a perv. he was very nice and said I should be proud. He was VERY nice to me the rest of the night! He has flirted with me before but it has never gone this far. I saw them a couple days later and he seemed regretful. Should I worry? Say something? Do nothing?
2007-08-02 14:52:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think I would keep that little conversation to myself. Next time someone asks to see your "inappropriate" pictures tell them "no". Saying he kept asking so you gave in is a lame excuse. If he were to keep asking you for sex would you give in to that too? You are in control of you, no one else. The only way this will end up if you pursue it is to cause a problem between him and his wife, and you will lose a friend in the process. Get some self control girl!
2007-08-02 14:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just keep watching and taking notes. Your number 2 could be explained if it took a long time to get the prescription but even then they should have answered the phone but number one I would worry about a little. If you do lack self esteem and have shown him that in the past he may be tired of being suspected of something he hasn't done - check this link on self esteem and relationships - and if he is too upset, let him file for divorce and the self esteem will prepare you for the next relationship. If he files for divorce rather than talking to you, he has been cheating whether you caught him or not.
2016-05-21 04:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some distance between you and this couple for the rest of your life. Eventually, this will end badly, especially if this man has flirted with you before. You have a nice surgically enhanced figure, so take the show on the road, go out, meet some single guys, and don't over drink, because obviously alcohol does not help you behave with integrity and intelligence.
2007-08-02 15:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Would you be ok with it if your friend (or anyone) showed your hubby a picture of their new boobs?
Get real. You knew what you were doing. There are darn few men out there who won't think it's a come-on if you show them a photo of your boobs.
And good for him if the guy felt regretful. He overstepped the boundaries. ... It doesn't sound like you understand that you did too.
The games you're playing will come back on you. And frankly, it sounds like you deserve it.
2007-08-02 15:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Barb B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre proud of your boobs, and you should be. im sure theyre very nice, but you gotta keep'em tucked in and not showing em off when youre not in hubbys presence!
The girls I hung out with that had boob jobs, just loved bustin them out. I totally understand that theyre confident and happy and a few drinks amplifies everything..... and i think its a beautiful thing...but youre gonna start thinking like you are now and thats no fun.
Dont worry, say nothin, do nothing. keep em in there when appropiate. Congratulations you went through a lot and im glad youre happy with em.
2007-08-02 15:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't worry, don't say anything, and do nothing. He may have already told his wife about it. If so, you can expect to hear from her shortly. Stay away from him, and don't show him private photos any more. Do you think your husband or his wife would appreciate that? Treat other people the way you want to be treated.
2007-08-02 15:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is not good. I think that it was inappropriate to show him your breasts. Keep your distance. Don't be the typical back stabbing friend. If he's checkin you out he is checking out other chicks. Leave this alone.
2007-08-02 15:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by moeschk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say nothing about it. It wasn't like he put a move on you. I'm sure he would want to, I know I would, but it's all innocent enough. Just be happy he finds you pretty.
2007-08-03 06:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it again. ummm, where i live everyone has things done and no one thinks anything about it. in my own experience a lot of women show a lot of improved parts when they first get them done. then the novelty wears off. just dont tell anyone about your phone pix again, thats all. it is just party stuff that got a little too tipsy. no one cares today.
2007-08-02 15:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check with your husband and "best friend" and see how appropriate they think it is. Flirting with your best friends hubby...makes you a bad friend and him a bad husband. Get it together and quit this wrong behavior.
2007-08-02 15:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋