Its not fair when you are ugly andeveryone takes the mick out of you and bully you is it people :'(
2007-08-02 14:16:08 · 15 answers · asked by Alan 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
At one point i felt like killing my self :(
2007-08-02 14:22:15 · update #1
Hey Alan,
First of all, it's what's inside that matters. You probably have a beautiful heart, which is more important than anything, and girls are attracted to that.
The best revenge is to do well for yourself. Getting a girl isn't the most important thing in your life right now. Study hard, go to college, get your degree, get rich and get plastic surgery to fix whatever it is that you think is making you ugly.
Don't you dare think about suicide. You have a lot of work to do to come out a winner in this.
Don't let people tell you that looks don't matter because they do. Have you ever watched the show Extreme Makeover? (not the home one, but the one where they give people plastic surgery because they believed that they were ugly?)
Do whatever you can to rise above this extremely difficult time in your life. It will all be worth it later when you drive through your town in a rolls royce with about 15 girls hanging all over you.
Don't worry about rejection now. Postpone your gratification until a later date. You will win in the end. Hang in there, my friend. I care about you.
2007-08-02 15:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you may not be attractive by society's standards, but who is??? and everyone gets old and not so attractive. Believe me if you are kind, have SELF ESTEEM and confidence (women find this very attractive) you will meet someone to love. Be sure that is what you really want and actively look for her .A woman isnt going to knock on your door. Get out, join clubs, etc. have friends fix you up and so forth. SHe's waiting. In the meantime, have fun with just friends and use good hygiene and wear nice clean clothes.
2007-08-02 21:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by BELINDA B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
will then make some improvements if your not happy with yourself do something u can look diffrent if u want put it starts with within also as for the bully dont let anyone define u be strong and be numb to what stupid people say there no better i jused to look diffrent iam a girl that had thick eyebrows and i wasnt comfortable i change alot now i have a lot of attention the good way with guys
2007-08-02 21:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't all like those shallow pretty boys. Hello, there are traits that out shine looks, and if you have the rugged look that is even better. Get your own personal trade mark, ooze a positive attitude, not arrogant, don't be a whiner and let it happen don't search for failure. It is not as hopeless as you think.
2007-08-02 21:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sage 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you are likely going to improve. Many people don't like how they look at that age.
You are a little young to worry about 'never' getting a girlfriend. A lot of girls your age are much more shallow than they will be in the future.
Join groups at school and get to know a few girls at a time. They will get to know you and like you once they know you.
And stop putting yourself down. Girls don't like guys who do that because then they don't get to know their real personality.
2007-08-02 21:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugly guys get GF's all the time, just learn how to treat girls properly and you'll do fine. Love has never been fair, and the sooner you learn that the better you will be at the game.
2007-08-02 21:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Real beauty lies within... Think positively and feel good about yourself and soon, people will see the beauty in you.
Just don't mind those who bully you. Smile and be strong... Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing you bothered by what they do! They don't deserve your attention!
2007-08-02 21:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by uncertain 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not true. if you've got that personality, you'll end up finding yourself being crushed on by a beautiful girl. thats the number one thing on most girls lists anyways:personality. GOod luck!!!
2007-08-02 21:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by cruzanmoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find a girl friend in time. ppl who have great characters and are true friends will care about what's inside, not appearances. so just let your great character shine through. let everyone see that you're secure. just be content with yourself. the right girl will come along and admire your character and you'll know she'll love you for you.
2007-08-02 21:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by just me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't fair at all, but there is someone for everyone. You have to get out there and find that someone who is waiting for you.
2007-08-02 21:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky S 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋