In the process of leaving my husband. Recently met a 20 yr old guy who knows what's going on. He's so into me, we're both a bit stubborn, hard to read. What can he be thinking when he says he wants to be there for myself and my child? What do I say when he looks at me and says I'm The One? I don't want to take advantage of a younger guy. I can't help but tell you he is so sexy, he can move, he's playful, he challenges me, he's outgoing, he appreciates the little things and he has given me more pleasure than I can describe in words.
2007-08-02 13:30:47 · 13 answers · asked by klm_who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys like older women, which is hot cause u r only 25, but if he really wants to be there 4 u then u should let him if u like him, but if u don't like him then u let him know right away, but it sounds like u do like him. I would go 4 it.
2007-08-02 13:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by DetroitFynest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, you have something, probably everyone wants...
and you should be lucky, but let me say this...Can he
make a Living for you and Your Son?
If he's good for financial security, and good for your heart
and soul, what are you worrying about...but if he isn't then
no matter about the ''goodies'' he possesses, find someone
who can provide enough security for you and your son, as
a family man should....
your boyfriend is still young enough to join the military.
This day and time, that is a good security, for medical
coverage, and all...if he's willing to do that...
When a young man wanted to marry my daughter, I said,
"show me you can make a living for her, and I'll consent"...
and he joined the military, then told me what he had done...
and he broke a leg while he was in there, and this gave
him a small percentage of disability, when he was dis-
charged...later...and he could receive payments of disability.
Not many jobs offer medical coverage and benefits like the
military does...and disabled veterans around here, are
receiving boocoos money and benefits, for their families...
The decision has to be made by you tho. You know what
you can live with, and what you can live without....
But put the welfare of your son, toward the top of the
priority list...too...for his well-being does count...too.
Sincerely Too Funny
2007-08-02 13:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Too Funny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay cool. Deal with one thing before even thinking of another. Figure out what went wrong and how not to attract the same kind of guy as your near ex.
Don't be going and getting involved with anyone... youngr older same age, until you are clear about yourself.
be col with the 20 yr old. Don't encourage him regardless of how nice he may be.
2007-08-02 13:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
:) Sounds like you found a winner and if he's that great and makes you that happy you have to at least try. You will regret it if you dont. All guys are NOT dogs even the attractive ones. At his age im willing to bet he's finally found the joy's of being with a woman and not a girl :) Hope it works out for you.
2007-08-02 13:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rancidbearsgrease 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your only hang up is his age, then I think you need to reassess your standards! If he is so wonderful to you and your child, what difference does his age make? No if he is just playing you for sex by feeding you this BS, you should be able to differentiate between the two, sit down, analyze the facts and make an informed decision.
2007-08-02 13:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do you think you are taking advantage?? === it sounds like you are as into him as he is into you ---- the age difference is not really relevant --- so enjoy the time you have and see where your journey takes you ==== best wishes
2007-08-02 13:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the things us guys say just to get a piece. Been there done that, don't fall for it.
2007-08-02 13:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most impotant thing is your child. Think of the kid first.
2007-08-02 13:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by dm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol he thinks your a milf babe!
if hes cute there is no harm in it.
plus it bosts your confidence right lol!
have fun
2007-08-02 13:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested in being there for the "long haul". He only wants a "booty call".
2007-08-02 13:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋