how to not be so disliked by people?

Question

ive always had problems interacting with people and, as a result, have a huge amount of social anxiety at age 25. i can be talkative, but am so worried of people thinking i am weird or that they will make fun of me, i just get paralyzed. i have always had a few, low-key close friends but it's hard for me with acquainatnces, extended family, and coworkers. i get bullied at work, esp. i honestly dont know what i do wrong that makes people dislike me so much. i wish i could because i dont want to be depressed or unlikeable. i am a nice person. people say to speak up, be yourself, and not care, but what are you supposed to do if someone says something obnoxious/sarcastic? i always feel embarassed, like im about to cry, and dumb...how do i not care and/or deal with this?

Answer 1

The best way to avoid being disliked by others is simply shun them. Become a hermit and nobody will bother you.

Answer 2

look here, 1.be yourself and be proud, God only made one of you.
2.read Dr. Wayne Dyers books for some great insights.
3.don't worry or wonder about other people comments , just pity them for being so negative, but don't join them.
4.refuse all negativity in your life and live to love and love life.
5. realize that God put you here to learn, not suffer , refuse to be unhappy for any reason.
6. if something like a death happens, let it all out in a safe place and reset you feelings back to happy.
7. study all things positive.
8.reread the above lessons and be happy don't worry!

Answer 3

Sofie...Dear hart, Don't sweat what people think.Your best guess is always 100% wrong. If someone dose'nt like you thats there fault not yours. Be good and God bless.

Answer 4

Practice meditation and Yoga. You will see the
effect for your self.