what would u think?

Question

if ur husband tells u I wanna sleep with a lot of women but don't do it becuase I love you.

Answer 1

I think that your husband is a nice guy who loves you and you should take care about him.Think about this.He mention other females and perhaps the reason is because something is wrong in the bedroom.However, he loves you and he back off.Talk to him.Something is getting bad.

Answer 2

Well isn't that awful that he wants to do it but won't do it because of you ! I could take that the wrong way if my husband made a statement like that! He could have stated that he loves you and could never sleep with alot of women because sex with love means something to him! I would hope now for the rest of my life that he didn't get confused about his love for me and go sleep with lots of women. Some men can make such strange comments to us that leave us wondering why they even talk to us at all? Good luck.

Answer 3

That he is a red blooded american male. I don't think he is trying to disrespect you but he is just being honest. Men think about it ALLLL the time and any little thing can get them aroused. That is just the nature of a man. The reason why he doesn't sleep with other women(if he hasn't) is because he has will power and self control and he may indeed love you.And I am a woman! Be happy that is so forthcoming. Tell him what you think about!

Answer 4

I think that just means he's normal. Of course men want to sleep with lots of women. It doesn't mean he's not in love with you. The fact that he tells you this hopefully means that he's being completely open with you, which should be a good thing. He's being faithful to you because he loves you, and that's the way it is supposed to work. His statement is probly messing with your head some, but it's not a big deal at all.

Answer 5

Hes telling you that- you dont fully turn him on, and that he craves to go off with other women, if given the opportunity. And the fact that he says he loves you is a joke. If he really did truely love you, he would be saying something like this, "Baby, I dont want anybody but you, I love you sweetheart" not that he wants to sleep with other women. YOU ARE THE WOMAN he supposed to want to sleep with, sounds like a jerk to me

Answer 6

I'd think he's an inconsiderate @sshole! A lot of men (and women too) THINK about these things, but they don't hurt their spouses by verbalizing their fantasies of sleeping with a lot of other people. He sounds very immature - maybe you two could use some family counseling?

Answer 7

Good grief. If your husband does not want to be monogomist, then get rid of him. And get yourself tested for STD's and AIDS because he just might have had sex with other women already. That's why he's bringing it up now. Get tested. Get rid of him. And move on. Get with someone mature.

Answer 8

that he was being honest with you...just because you have a marriage license doesn't mean his sex drive is dead. Your relationship is the one place you and him should be 100% Honest and free to explore your sexual fantasies. Why not figure out how to enjoy it together.

Answer 9

Tell him that there are plenty of Men you would love to get your hands on and don't do it because you love him and see how it makes him feel.

Answer 10

Honestly... he proble does love you but you can never be to careful because some guys tend to say that they love you but do things behind your back... i think it all depends on how your relationship is going... and how you guys communicate...