I can understand you are in pain and I can only say this to you, the wheel always goes in the full circle. I don't know why you cannot see your children but get yourself a diary and write to them every day so that when they do come back to you you can show them.
And stay calm and composed, I know you are hurting but don't give anyone an excuse to say anything bad about you. very different circumstances to yours but I had to do the same and I promise you the wheel will come back around.
God grant you the serenity to accept the things you cannot change, courage to change the things you can and wisdom to know the difference.
2007-08-02 10:31:40
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answered by Anonymous
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See a lawyer, you are taking on the state which makes the legislation. Presumably 'they' think you are not up to the task, we don't know why that is.
When the social services get it wrong and a child dies that wasn't taken into care/protection etc then they are lambasted by the press (understandably) if they have got it wrong in your case then you should have witnesses that can back up your claims that you are being denied access to your children.
It is not possible for them to take your children without giving a reason (even if not detailed) and you will be entitled to legal aid unless you are very wealthy.
It is not possible to make a fair comment one way or the other on the information you have provided, I can only say I am glad I am not in your position as I would find it very distressing to be parted from my children. The authorities must think you did (or failed to do ) something. Find out what the allegations are then you can counter their actions.
Your question seems more concerned with money for your 'injuries' than for your children, you are obviously angry but it looks like you feel you have been deprived of a source of income rather than precious children who you care about above any financial considerations perhaps that is why they are not with you?
2007-08-08 18:36:53
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answered by noeusuperstate 6
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First of all forget trying to sue the courts never gonna happen, them people are the law and above the law and control the law, remember this turkeys don't vote for Christmas, now get your priorities sorted and get your self represented by a professional, I hate advising anyone to use a solicitor/ barrister but get your self a family law specialist, if you cant afford it get legal aid, don't let them sit on it pester them keep records of every conversation and put every thing in writing, if you have been the problem and you are sorted prove it, if you are an Innocent in this then prove it, if you love them kids and it sounds like that then you say I,m sorry but you will listen to me, stop worrying about compensation and worry about the kids, your legal people will fight for compensation if your entitled to any.
2007-08-08 17:09:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Are we talking Sheffield UK here? I know one or two of the beaks in that court. Based on the limited information you have supplied, you have almost no chance of winning. For a start, you cannot sue the court as a body, because it is not. You would have to sue the judge, social services, police authority etc in their official capacities.
Seriously, think about devoting your energies to helping your children as much as you can.
2007-08-02 17:29:22
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answered by skip 6
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I think you are an unfit person to care for kids otherwise you wouldnt be in this position.Local authorities in this country do not behave in the way you describe without good reason.It is time you took a good look at yourself in the mirror and change your ways.then and only then will you get the kids home.Stop moaning you are putting pressure on an overworked Sheffield Dept.
2007-08-09 17:01:50
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answered by realdolby 5
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good luck to you and i understand what you are saying about the courts in this country it seems to get worse not better even if you are a bad parent you should be allowed to see your children and im not trying to say that you are . but there does need to be a change sooner rather then later
2007-08-02 21:51:26
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answered by NICOLA C 1
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OK, obviously you are having some kind of problems taking care of your kids. And now you want to sue somebody else for that? what you're asking is like if you'd robbed a bank, and then you wanted to file a discrimination suit if that bank denied you a line of credit. You have much bigger problems.
2007-08-02 17:31:19
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answered by smurfette 4
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Obviously without knowing all the sides to the story no one can really comment. It does sound like Sheffield CC have been hard on you so I would personally be seeing a solicitor to see what I can do.
Good luck
2007-08-02 17:33:35
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answered by Anonymous
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And there was me , trying to sue my Council for corrupt dealings ,
The problem with this , is the system , and as the system is controled by them , it's very hard to fight it
Anyway , good luck ,
2007-08-02 18:47:28
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answered by Stephen A 4
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I agree with the above. WHY? Why were the courts involved with your kids in the first place? Maybe they we trying to protect the kids from a bad environment.
The courts have a duty of care to protect the kids. So do you and I suspect you failed.
2007-08-02 18:07:09
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answered by Jack 3
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