What's up with women who say they're heterosexual, but say that the male anatomy is not attractive?

Question

They say their "straight", (not even bi) but then say that male sexuality & anatomy is a turn off, or not as much of a turn on as the female anatomy.
If you call yourself straight, but are not into your lovers body, wouldnt you be better off to just masturbate?
Is this why people have sex with the lights out?

Im talking about women who say theyre straight, but do not find the male body sexy.

were not talking about any "certain parts" here, just the naked male body in general....how can you say youre straight, but be more turned on by the female anatomy?

Have I seen a pair of testicals? Yeah girl...I love them....cannot for the life of me understand how people don't see the male anatomy as absolutley gorgeous,Every inch of it!

Actually Lycra spandex...this particular Q of mine was inspired by a poster named Nanni earlier today...she claims to be straight....finds females HOT and men GROSS.
Your answer was fabulous ;)

Ahh Mojo changed her name....hello Simone ;)

Answer 1

I posed a similar question a few days ago. Delicious, I'm assuming my question inspired you to write this question. ;-)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap0oS26kvHSv_b0l.wd5QWvsy6IX?qid=20070731150843AAtvyyp

Anyhow, I think a lot of these women are too proud to admit they're turned on by male features and the male anatomy. Plus, society tells women that thinking "erotic" thoughts -- especially erotic thoughts about a man, is something to be shunned upon. Women often feel "guilty" if they find they're having erotic thoughts about a man's penis. Sounds silly to me. Then there's that social stigma that women are "slutty" if they associate with sex, liking sex, and seeking sex. I wish women were as sexually free as men. Men openly admit they love vaginas, breasts, her butt, etc.

Another part of the reason why some "straight" women state that the male anatomy is unattractive, while the female anatomy is attractive, is due to the socialized conditioning of putting women on a "beauty" pedestal, due to a male-dominated society. Any form of appreciating the male anatomy is linked to being "gay", which is taboo among male heterosexuals. To be "gay" is a direct attack on a heterosexual male's manhood. In order to counter this notion, male-dominated society makes the "male" form seem silly, undesirable, irrelevant, and to be ignored. As a result, not only do men believe this inclination, but heterosexual women start to believe this about the male anatomy as well. Who's to say soft feminine curves are better than the strong masculine chisled body? You can't. It's apples and oranges. Both are attractive and can/should be appreciated in their own particular ways. Even though the ads, billboards, music videos, strip clubs, and television featuring beautiful women is directed towards men -- many women, as a result of this male-centric media orgy, have been conditioned/brainwashed into believing that only the female figure is beautiful as well. There was a time period, when artists like Michaelangelo and Leonardo Di Vinci would draw or sculpt the male figure. In this day-and-age, it is much rare to see heterosexual male (or female) artists paint the male form. We are told that the male form is unattractive and to be ignored. I, as a heterosexual male, am secure enough to admit that the male form is appreciative.

I was on the swim team, and wore tight spandex jammer shorts (picture: http://www.swimming.cz/images/FSIIJAMMER_xl.jpg ), and I must've lost count on how many women I caught oogling my package. Others told me later that they caught some women in the crowd looking at my rear side in these shorts.

If men wore tight pants with their bulges outlined, women would stare just like men stare at breasts (and women are always wearing tight tops for this reason). The difference would be that the women would readily deny that they were staring.

Don't believe me? Watch this video, where they do an experiment with several women at a restaurant, and the waiter is wearing tight spandex pants with a fake penis placed in his pants:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrrF5utfstE

Then watch the lady at the end of the video that says "that was so disgusting!" This is what I'm talking about. Women readily denying it. In the video, she was mesmerized and fascinated while staring at his penis, and was looking "hot and bothered" and lost her concentration. Women are so full of s.hit, and are such hypocritical liars it's incredible. Just admit you love staring at penis, just as much as men have no problem stating that they love staring at breasts. The only woman being honest was the older woman that took off her coat because she said the displayed penis was getting her "hot", and she was holding her chest because her heart was fluttering. She also said she was "enjoying" the sight.

How many women will get mad at me now that I've told the truth?

Answer 2

I don't know. I thinkn that most women still like men's body. True, a soft penis is "cute", not "sexy". But when in erection, I love it! True, testicles are kind of funny... But honestly, when I give a bj, I don't think about it that way. And even when I just look at them... I don't care! I know it's a bit crude, sorry. But I think it comes with experience. It's something you get sued to. It's like some men (probably young) who say that a woman's genitals look ugly... But that's not the point, is it? What's more, I've never been with a man who didn't want to look at it... It usually turn them on!

But I did read a few things about some women who say that a owman's body looks better... Honestly, I don't agree. They are just different! And I'm definitely attracted to men's bodies. I can say that a woman's body is nice, hot, etc., but the girls I personally find the most attractive are those who are a tad masculine. I'm not into the big-titted ones (I'm not a lesbian, by the way!

Answer 3

Men's anatomy and dangly bits are not attractive at all............It's hot!
What's not to love?

Edit: Lol Spandex, I'm not angry because you pointed this out, it's true. How could a red-blooded woman not notice and start daydreaming?

Answer 4

I don't understand that either. I find the male form very attractive. I better give my head a shake or I won't get this paper written.

Answer 5

Sex with the lights out is no fun. NO FUN I tells ya! What is the point?

I love the male body; in all it's glory!

Perhaps it's an intimidation thing of the male member comin' at you. Or perhaps the whole sex act is intimidating for some.

Answer 6

Good question. Most often they have either:

- problems getting it.
- men problems.
- are sexist, etc.
- have seen one ugly dude's you-know and they think all men are the same there.
- still young.

But seriously, I noticed it's more of sexism, and youth. Poster above for example, has shown sexism quite a lot in her past answers. One of our girls here, is only 17, etc, etc.

Case closed.

EDIT:
''Now, add up in your mind all the paintings and sculptures you have seen of nude women; you will no doubt think of well over a dozen famous works of art.

Conclusion? The female form is more aesthetically pleasing.''

Sorry to say, but men make and made up the majority of artists. Most men would rather paint a naked woman over a naked man.

Answer 7

I don't know, I'm totally in the "men are beautiful" camp. Strong jaw lines, broad shoulders, shapely lips...
Anyway, isn't this more of a "girly squeamishness" over the male anatomy, and a symptom of immaturity? I haven't heard too many grown women say this.

Answer 8

Nah, that's not all that uncommon for either gender. They might like the way their partner's genital/s look at a certain angle only or they might only like how the genital/s feel in action. They might like everything else on a man's body, but not his unit. They probably love how his unit feels and how his face looks..etc...

Answer 9

"Naked Men Campaign" reaches another!

Okay, I have this problem too when I go out with the girls.

Sure, they seem to like the female body more than the male body. I've pinned this down to culture and what they're exposed to.

That movie, "What women want" (Mel Gibson) pins a big issue. I LMOA when he was using Tihician girls to capture the woman's advertisements. I want lipstick, shampoo, conditioner, purfume companies to lure me in with great men ... not the lips of some whore modle. This is our culture - IDK why???

Then the only naked men on TV, Internet, and Movies are "gay", or "mutlating their genitals" (Jonny Knoxville) ... so, every time a naked man comes out we're trained (by media like Jonny Knoxville) to go shopping with them or laugh at them. "That's Messed up" 4 sure

So, this flips the question to, "Why are men so whacky about being naked in the media?" Why do they have to be gay or laughing at thier own johnson?

Answer 10

It's probably because the woman finds her own genders anatomy worse and is taking the lesser of the two evils for want of anything better.