and they r only 14 im still 13 and im tottaly not ready and everyones always like its the best and everything im not ready what do i do?
2007-08-02 09:41:15 · 13 answers · asked by surfer girl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
thats good your standing up for ur self!!! go you!! dont let it bother you! you know ur not ready which is good, no one at that age should be doing that, i think it nuts, they have no idea of the emotional side effects an the really outcomes that can happen!
if it is something thats really botherin you , you prob shouldnt be around these people! i think you can do much better with different friends who cant even drive but would risk having a baby.
there is so much more out there to life then sex!
2007-08-02 09:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by sparklechic2010 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, everyone is probably lying. I don't see how a girl could know enough about her body for sex to be " the best" at that age. They are probably just saying that because it's supposed to be good, but I highly doubt they really know what good sex is :-). You are doing good by waiting, there is no point in doing it before you are ready. I promise you it won't be "good" if you are uncomfortable and you will just regret it. Don't let anyone pressure you! They will probably wish they had waited when they get older.
2007-08-02 10:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by samuraitoaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that everyone wants to have sex with they're like 14 and 13 but i'm sure they have no idea what they're doing and what kind of risks they're taking. You're smart to not have sex. I wasn't nearly ready at that age either.
2007-08-02 09:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep on doing what your doing! I had sex for the first time when I was 19 b/c thats when I was ready and now I am married to the same man and we have a beautiful baby girl. But dont worry you arent the only one. And becides most of them are talking crap.
2007-08-02 09:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
human beings in severe college that are having intercourse don't comprehend what intercourse is approximately, or the actual or emotional effects. maximum of them are putting themselves up for an unfulfilling relationship existence interior the destiny and are in basic terms having intercourse by using fact somebody else is telling them to. you have made a competent determination to attend. It coach great adulthood and appreciate for your self and your physique. you will in all probability lose a guy or 2 who's truthfully no longer interested in no longer with the ability to apply you, yet you're extra appropriate off devoid of them interior the long-term. It in all probability does seem as though everybody is having intercourse, yet alot extra human beings are not having intercourse than you think of. it somewhat is basically that alot of people who're communicate approximately it plenty, it style of looks like it.
2016-10-01 06:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let them pressure you into doing it if your not ready, anyways you are tooo young. Look enjoy life now with no attachments because look at it this way you don't have to worry about if your pregnant or not. Or you slept with him and then you find out you were not the only one. My point is think about it.
2007-08-02 09:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Belee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not ready then tell everybody to leave u alone and respect ur wishes.
2007-08-02 09:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anybody pressure you to do anything you aren't ready to do. Just say "No".
2007-08-02 09:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh wow...if you are that young you TOTALLY shouldn't do it in my opinion...if someone is presuring you tell them to shove it up their *** because you aren't doing that **** :) ha when you feel you're ready you will do it.....don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do
2007-08-02 09:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to stand up for yourself!!! tell them your waiting until you are ready!!
2007-08-02 09:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by stop it 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋