My aunt said my cousin's down syndrome daughter was a form of "punishment" for her doing something wrong. Is this true? I mean I don't really believe it, but still what if there is some truth to it? You what they say where there's smoke there's fire....
2007-08-02 09:31:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Special Education
Please read and ask your aunt to read John 9 verses1-5 in the Bible.
2007-08-02 12:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
A few religions believe that, like the Hmong people, but most do not.
Most people believe it's a mistake in the way the little chromosomes go together when the embryo first develops. No one made a mistake to cause it. It just happens, sometimes.
People with Down Syndrome can be a delightful addition to a family, even if they are a bit challenging, sometimes. Look for the positive in the child, not the negatives!
2007-08-02 20:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by embroidery fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No!! Having any child that is handicapped is not a form of punishment. Years ago people would think that. I am surprised that is still around. Please dear that is not a punishment to your Aunt. God gave your cousin to your Aunt as a gift and knew she could take care of your cousin better than another and picked her. God loves her and is not punishing her. Read your Bible in chapter John and you will understand.
2007-08-06 03:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by cindy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Handicaps are just something that occurs randomly - not the result of what the parent(s) have done. Handicapped children may even be a blessing (and not a punishment) as God can't trust them to just ANY run of the mill parent! It takes someone special to care for and love a handicapped child.
2007-08-02 16:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My 3 yr old was recently diagnosed with Autism, you know I had all kind of questions going through my head including if it was a form of punishment. This is what I came to, it's not a form a punishment. To be the parent of a child with any type of disability you have to be strong in more ways than one. I think God knows what people are stronger and what they can handle. I think my son is a gift from God. I know in my heart he's here for a very special reason, whatever it may be, and him being diagnosed with autism just makes me believe it more.
2007-08-02 16:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by helpnout 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of a 28 year old autistic son I agree with helpnout 100%. At first you might think having a child with a disability is a punishment but as time goes on I realize that having a disabled child has made me stronger. I used to wonder what will happen when I'm gone but as I get older things seem to be working themselves out. God is the one in charge and He knows what he's doing. I just trust God and do my best and realize that He will take care of the rest. It used to feel sad that my son wouldn't be able to do some things but he learned to do much more than I ever expected. Over the years he has taught me more than I taught him. My son now works at a sheltered workshop and is doing well. When I'm gone he'll be in a group home with his peers. Right now he lives at home and he is a blessing to have around.
2007-08-02 18:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by older mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as the mom to a 3 year old bundle of love, who just so happens to have Down syndrome, I can state that it is no punishment. My husband and I feel really blessed to have this little boy. He is amazing and we are so proud of him. Presumably your aunt is the child's grandmother?? How tragic that this vile woman can't look at this child and just love him. She is missing out on an extraordinary experience and I hope she accepts the child soon.
2007-08-02 17:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Smom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your aunt is wicked for saying such a thing. My daughter has a handicap and she is a blessing. God would never PUNISH anyone in that way, not through a child. So the answer is no, absolutely not!!!
2007-08-05 23:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that raising a child with a disability is an opportunity for the family to develop strength and experience joys they would never have had otherwise. I think it's a sign that the family has been trusted to do something very important. It's not easy raising a disabled child, but the more you put into it, the more you get back.
2007-08-02 22:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are some conditions including Downs which can be linked to a mother not taking proper care of herself while pregnant. This maybe what your aunt is referring to. However whenever I've heard this comment it is usually often meant to reflect punishment from God. God is not petty and would never inflict this upon one of us. He gives us free will and free choice and if we mess up then we have to live with the outcomes. So in a way it might appear to be punishment if your cousin was engaged in doing things that could harm the baby while pregnant.
2007-08-03 03:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My child is particularly bright. Am I being rewarded? Not likely. God saw that I had something to offer this child, just as He saw something special in your aunt and cousin. To be trusted by Him to take care of His most precious gift is not something to complain about. Give thanks and find a way to use the story to inspire love in others, not bitterness for reasons that can only be selfish.
2007-08-05 23:41:33 · answer #11 · answered by butmom26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋