I'm so attracted to this guy and he likes me too. Up until now we've been friends..we knew each other a little before he moved to another state. Since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm already so into him and can't stop obsessing. He wrote that he's going to fall in love with me. Also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well..but I do know he's attracted to me & seems like a decent guy. I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now and the last contact (by him) he checked again when I was leaving! Something else, before he moved, he even invited me on a trip with him and also asked me to visit him but I never had the chance until now.
2007-08-02 08:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There are two types of people. There are those that want to be together because they do not want to be lonely...and there are those that want magic.
You will have many choices in your life...but they are all this one.
Bon chance ami.
2007-08-02 08:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geographically another state is very difficult to keep a relationship going, it is not for the faint at heart, and like you said you both don't know each other all that well, just an attraction. Guys unfortunately are not connected the same as us girls. If he is trustworthy then seeing him and starting a long distance romance may work, but an attraction won't be enough I'm afraid, to keep a guy saddled to you only if he's that far away. Don't forget too, there are many fish in the sea.
2007-08-02 08:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by 2bsongie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a big rubber binder and everytime you have an obsessive thought, draw back on the binder and let it go until it snaps violently against your wrist. Let them be the root cause of your pain and consider the outcomes of your decision if you don't evaluate the situation effectively without rational thinking. Happy snapping!
2007-08-02 13:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Janso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothing ventured nothing gained. Just take the normal precautions you would when with someone you are uncertain about.. You just don't want it to be another, ball, bed, bang, and bawl scenario
2007-08-02 10:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsession with someone else isn't healthy... be careful about meeting him if you know you're starting eto feel that way. ALso, why do you have to go there? Can he not come to you??????
2007-08-02 15:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by fle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid the two of you are geographically impossible. Find another closer to home.
2007-08-06 04:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by LEONARD W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for him, follow them.
2007-08-02 09:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mög T.H.E. Tormentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋