So last night my boyfriend got a little rough down there with his hands
It hurt really bad so imidiatley after I went to the bathroom to find the left lip of my vagina to be swollen (this has happened to me before after a rough night, and no it is not an STD nor an allergic reaction)
this morning I woke up to find the lip had swelled even more... its about 3 or 4 times the size of the other one, it is EXTREMELY painful, its excruciating to pee, and its difficult to walk
Has anyone had this happen? What can I do to make the swelling go down??? It hurts very bad and I need some help
and going to the doctor is not an option.
1. I know there is nothing seriously wrong with me, this has happened before
2. I'm 17 and my mom doesn't know I have sex =/
So can anyone help me???
2007-08-02 07:26:39 · 2 answers · asked by AmyAngelo 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you have an obstructed Bartholin's gland. Sit in a tub of water just as hot as you can stand and gently clean yourself with soap and water, then just soak for a while. This will help to unclog the gland and get it flowing again. You can also put an ice pack on it for twenty minutes every hour, this will decrease swelling and numb the discomfort. IN future, tell you boyfriend he is damaging you and needs to be a whole lot more gentle, and he needs to wash his hands before he touches you.
2007-08-02 07:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have an infected gland of some kind, in which case you SHOULD see a doctor. You don't have to tell your mom you're having sex, but you need to be responsible for your own health and get to a doctor. You can get an infected gland from other things than sexual activity.
2007-08-02 07:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a women's health clinic around? Something like Planned Parenthood? They can help with general gynecology issues, not just birth control.
It sounds like your boyfriend is being clumsy down there. He needs to learn to open the lips and push them to the side, not just tear them if they happen to be in his way!
2007-08-02 07:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by christnp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try cold compresses. Like a frozen wash cloth or ice pack. Dont wear anything that will rub against it.
Perhaps you were dry? Make sure you are lubed up well before you get rough as you will suffer greatly!
*Personal exeperience*
If the swelling remains or gets worse see a MD.
Edit: If this has happend before, how did you fix it last time?
2007-08-02 07:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by MommyTwice-TwiceTheLove 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ice it. As long as u are POSSITIVE that nothing serriously wrong happend then ice should help.
2007-08-02 07:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by Circe B 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. this is NOTTTT normal. and if youve had it before...you have problems!!!!!!!! if you are having adult fun (sex), you need to act like an adult and tell your mommy to take you to the doc.!!!!!!!!!!! don't be stupid anymore!!!
2007-08-02 07:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by stop it 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋