I got hte birth control shot about two and a half months ago, and I have been spotting ever since, they gave me the pill to make my period stop, but it dodn't work, and my period started yesterday. my fiance doesn't want to have sex while I'm on my period.
I don't know what to do. my mom said something about a douche. will that work to keep me clean for a couple hours??
2007-08-02 05:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by Lizzie_bee 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Dear God...DON'T DOUCHE if you bleeding. Spotting isn't a big deal. If he is marrying you...HE SHOULD SO GET OVER IT! You should find some better birth control...or try the nuba ring.
Good luck....I hope you get laid on your honey moon. You should reconsider this whole marriage thing if he can't handle "womens problems". He is signing up for a lifetime of this crap....and he can't handle it now. Geez
2007-08-02 06:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Candace 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't douche. Head to the store, Wal-mart, target, some grocery stores have them, and get a product called Instead. It is with the pads and tampons. It is a flexible little cup that you put in your vagina. It completely covers the cervix and catches the blood. Your partner will not be able to feel it. Just be sure to go ahead and get a box of them today so you can learn how to use them by tomorrow. Good luck and congrats on the wedding!
2007-08-02 06:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by elizabethdawnwv 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! July 4th is our anniversary of having mutually. we've been mutually 7 years, and have been going to get married day after today, yet we mandatory to marry on a Saturday, so pushed it back to 2009. we are actually getting married A year day after today! Roll on 4th July 2009! stable success day after today nonetheless, take excitement in your self and sneak a 2nd away including your hubby each and every so often!
2016-10-09 01:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A douche may help, but I would never douche. Let your body cleanse you out naturally.
Just wait till your period is over, you CAN still be romantic on your period.
(I also hope you don't get another shot, it wreaks havoc to your reproductive system, I was on it for four years and am so glad I'm OFF of it)
2007-08-02 06:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a cervicup that you can insert during your period. It will hold the blood for a few hours, that will definately get you through your ceremony AND your honeymoon. It's like a cup that the blood stays in until you take it out and drain it. You can get it at your local drug store. We have it at Jewel in the US, I'm not sure where you are located.
2007-08-02 06:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥CUTIE♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you skip sex on your honeymoon its not that big deal, it happens.. you got your whole life ahead of you.. get to know each other better in all those other ways.. especially the things that might be annoying a year from now.
Conversation, compatibility and companionship makes or breaks a marriage.
2007-08-02 06:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't douche! Your vagina is a self cleaning oven, it does it on it's own!
2007-08-02 06:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that could work, but im not sure if it'll work 100%.
try it, and it might work.
if not wait a little
while.
you might still just be getting used to the pill
2007-08-02 06:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by NeedingHelp 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋