I don't hate my husband, but I see him more as a friend or family member. It's been really hard to have intimacy w/him and I think I married him because my heart had been broken and wanted someone who loved me. We've only been married 11 months. Don't know if I should stay and hope for the best. Maybe love will come......
2007-08-02 05:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by lil_gypsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You made a promise. Keep your promises.
2007-08-02 06:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sldgman 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave I felt that way about my husband once so we decided to split. After he was gone I realized how much I missed everything about him even the things I once thought I hated. Give yourself time to sort through all your feelings before you let him go. If you find you really don't love him then you shouldn't stay married because it will cause everyone involved more problems and it may lead to you never finding true love.
2007-08-02 06:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by heartlessdevel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider you on the cheating section, yet till you're in a topic, you do no longer completely realize it. I used to think of divorce replaced into unacceptable, different than for motives you indexed, yet some human beings attempt their toughest to make it paintings, and it in basic terms would not. i'm fortunately married to my husband, and vow to stay with him no count number what. yet I actual have pals who've been divorced, and that i've got no question that their faith is genuine. you could no longer decide yet another's ideals... basically God knows.
2016-12-11 08:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i dont care what religion u are(i happen to b cathgolic also) if your not happy then do whatever it takes to make u happy... its not fair to you or your husband to fake bein in love with him! if i were u i would sit down and have a long heart to heart with the man(i kno its gonna b hard, but u gotta do it for both your sakes) and then u need to really think and ask yourself what YOU want to do! if your hearts not there then leave! u only live once so make yourself happy!!! good luck!! <3
2007-08-02 06:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, why did u marry him and whats wrong now? is the sex bad?
what changed from the pooint of "I DO" to "I DONT" ?????
if your not happy i think u two need to sit down and talk about it ....love can come after but something has happen during these 11months to make u have a change of heart.
2007-08-02 05:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by ben d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few couples stay "in love" (eros) for their entire married lives. Most couples go in and out of love (eros) many times.
English is a weak language for talking about different kinds of love. The Greek of the New Testament is much better:
+ Eros: Romantic love
+ Philia: Brotherly (or sisterly) love
+ Storge: Parental love
+ Agape: Godly love
Eros and philia are based on emotions and storge is almost an instinct. But Agape is a decision to wish for the best for someone.
Marriage is about much more than just being "in love" (eros).
The Catholic Church believes that God himself is the author of marriage and has created it for one man and one woman.
The spouses of a valid marriage:
• Create a bond, which by its very nature is perpetual and exclusive.
• Are strengthened and consecrated for the duties and the dignity of their state.
• Are sealed by God himself in their consent to mutually give and receive one another.
• Form a covenant that is integrated into God's covenant with man: "Authentic married love is caught up into divine love."
• Have their own special grace that:
. • Perfects the couple's love.
. • Strengthens their unity.
. • Helps one another to attain holiness in their married life.
. • Helps in welcoming and educating their children.
For more information, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church: http://www.usccb.org/catechism/text/pt2sect2chpt3art7.htm#iv
With love in Christ.
2007-08-02 17:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by imacatholic2 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It´s funny!!! People tend to think "love" as something you either have it or don´t. Love is more than that. Love is more about the commitment to love someone. Work to be more in love don´t quit...
Best wishes
2007-08-02 05:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by adsomx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im seperated from my wife and one of the things she said was we need to learn to be friends before we can continue with this marrage. you said you were alrady freinds, thats great. sometimes we find ourself asking "am i doing the right thing" if i were you i would go with the flow and give it sometime before you make your choice. friendship in a marrige is a real plus. hang in there, maybe go to counclin
2007-08-02 06:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make the invisible man happy, NO
2007-08-02 06:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should follow what your heart tells you. Not everyone gets what they want. Life is full of confusion.
2007-08-02 05:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by norma.musicgeek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋