2007-08-02 05:21:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, he doesn't live next door but he is a local artist and he's not super-famous, so it would be possible for the married person to connect with him, but she has no intention of doing so and just keeps the fantasy in her head. Is is wrong to feel turned on by someone other than her husband?
2007-08-02 05:29:20 · update #1
Oh, and she doesn't personally know the singer, but she has seen him in concert a few times.
2007-08-02 05:32:01 · update #2
No. Emotional cheating would be like having a close friendship with thoughts of taking it farther, but never acting on it. Confiding in a coworker or friend in a way that you never would with your spouse.
2007-08-02 05:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what constitutes a "crush". If in your heart you are drooling, staring, hoping & wishing that you could do something to, or be with another person other than your spouse, than by all means it is being unfaithful.
Remember, a ball rolling downhill does not slow down, it always gains momentum. What you do, think and desire now, will be your end result if it continues its course.
If your emotions and desire were to run its full course, where would it lead you?
I recommend taking a mature and responsible stance on your own mind and emotions, and re-direct them back to the only one to meet your needs. You may be caught up by the temptation of someone else, which has the potential to destroy trust, love, companionship, and a marriage.
Work hard and learn how to enjoy who you have. That is much more fulfilling than allowing your feelings to get the best of you.
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2007-08-02 12:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh no cuz i personally luv Eminem and im married. now whether or not i get to a concert and get a bac stage pass and meet him and well lets just say i wouldnt be talking if i got the chance. but then that would be an issue. people are so strange these days when u see sum on tv remember the odds of that person meeting that person is very likely but the odds ov dat person even getting close to that person space to be with that person is slim to none!!! its not that serious people are only human. u cant be that insecure with ur self and think that. well as i would always tell my husband Halle Berry wouldnt have ur @ss!!! so im not ever worried about it.
2007-08-02 12:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at it like this, if your partner was really attracted to you then why think of anyone else in that way. Your all he needs, not that he'll cheat on you with this person. But what if another person comes around with qualities or simularities of this person then what would he do. Thinking about somebody else is cheating enough for me. The question is if he had the chance. And fantasizing is close enough what's step 2?
2007-08-02 12:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it emotional cheating. You just think the singer is attractive, what's wrong with that? I'm sure your spouse thinks there is an attractive movie star/ singer out there.
Just don't do anything about the crush.
2007-08-02 12:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its counting cheating if she or he going out for a date with that singer. A crush, i think most husband n wife have their own someone that they crush on. Even if its not a celebrity, its a crush. I think its not cheating,
2007-08-02 12:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO- I'm allowed (i say this very liberally) that If I could ever cheat, it's this one singer I love- It used to be Brad Pitt b/c of course the liklihood of this really happening to me is zilch. Nothing wrong in appreciating the opposite sex.
2007-08-02 12:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by zoey074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I hope not, I have a massive crush on Enrique Inglaises and go weak at the knees when I see him, (my partner is aware of this). This would also mean my partner cheats on me everytime we visit the beach etc.
2007-08-02 12:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH please ! Do you really need to ask that? That's nothing!!! Who doesn't have a crush on a celebrity?
My girl loves Johnny Depp, and I love Shakira, everybody admire artists and there is nothing wrong with that unless you go stalker or psycho.
2007-08-02 13:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is fine and even imagining is fine but acting on it is a NO NO NO NO and a mature woman will know it herself.
2007-08-02 12:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋