My best friend and I have gotten older, grown apart, and our friendship is breaking. We have been friends since we were 7. Now I am 13 years old and everything is different between us. I matured quicker than she has. She still likes to play with dolls. She loves to play stupid games still like, pretending to own a perfume shop, playing house, and crap like that. Over the past year or so, I have made a new best friend. The problem is that we all live on the same street. I think my new best friend likes to hang out with her too. I think she likes me better though. But behind the other girl's back she talks about her. And my old bff is on yahoo! answers and she is asking all these questions about her bff is being "replaced". I don't care if she replaces me, but it seems like she uses me when the other girl isn't around. We both like to play with the other girl though. I am afraid about what if the other girl starts liking her better.
2007-08-02 04:08:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Another thing is that when school starts, I will be with my new bff a lot b/c we will be going to the same school. We will hardly ever see the other girl.
(Me and my new bff are going to ride together to a private school everyday. We are not in the same grade but she is still my bff)
2007-08-02 04:10:24 · update #1
this is her profile, you can check it out if you want to see what she is saying about me. All you have to do is read the about me thing
http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AoCL4eFG.idwf.gWkNZj3pr44gt.?show=TUqIfLdNaa
2007-08-02 04:13:22 · update #2
some friendships are like the seasons,they last as long as they should.It could just be a sign that your both moving in different directions.And you should get new friends that are more suitable that fit in to your current living and lifestyle.
2007-08-02 04:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are terribly young to be worried about such things.. However, friends in one's life come/go it's just a fact.. I wouldn't "throw her under the bus just yet" I would spend time with her and suggest doing different things.. If she's a good friend she may get away from doing "immature games/things" If not that's okay, she's still a good friend and one that would probably do anything for you.. So, just go about your business and keep things nice.. As for the other girl liking her better, well that might happen too so what, then you have two friends' to hang out with or go and make some new ones...Good luck
2007-08-02 04:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. teenagers.. try to treat everone the same and not to have a bff because based on my observations and experience.. bff DONT LAST LONG!!! so just bare with the other girl.. what's wrong if u play dolls?? try to treate her like a little girl! have fun! try to call her when ever u are free to show that she is still your friend and about the questions she's been asking.. she just wanna get your attention... obviously she is still childish.. just be patient one day she will grow up.. everyone does! good luck!
2007-08-02 04:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Madeleine Ong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend will eventually grow out of playing with dolls. Why dont you be more like a big sister to her for now and not judge her for not maturing as fast as you. That's what friends are all about, being there for each other. You need to think more about how you can help her while she is maturing and not being jealous of newer friendships. Be her friend.
2007-08-02 04:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" Friends get scattered like the wind. Friends grow apart. Perhaps call every now and then. "
in other words all things and relationships change. And the more you attempt to keep things the way they are. The more things will change.
2007-08-02 04:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called growing up, everyone does it in a different way. It happens to everybody. As you mature your intrests change as does your friends. You will find a new best friend but will be sad for a bit after growing apert from this one.
2007-08-02 04:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur wat in middle school? at this age its when u start meeting new ppl from diffrent schools and diffrent places... so dont worry about it... im sure u can meet new ppl and have new best friends.. when i was in middle school my group of best friends kinda fell apart.. but i met another group of kids.. and they were just awesome.. we always hung out.. always had fun... never cared about what ppl thought about us.. we didnt care about gossips and all that drama..we would always cheer for each other at the basketball games or softball... cuz we were all in sports.. so yea.. dont worry about it.. i bet ur friend will later realize that she did a mistake.. and she will want u back as a friend... just try to ignore it.. and enjoy life.. dont mess it up because of one single person...
2007-08-02 04:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by 1573_l853 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how u no who ur true friends r keep ya eyes and ears open n ya mouth shut cuz then u will b put n the middle n it will b over sum he say she say stuff
2007-08-02 04:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jatasha01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋