This morning when I came home from work I got the shock of the year. I found my husband and his ex wife laying butt booty naked in our bed together. They had soft music playing and candles lit all around the room.
When I entered the room they told me to be very quiet because they were trying to sooth their 6 year old son into going to sleep. I started yelling and screaming and demanded that they put some clothes on and get out of my house.
They both looked at me like I was nuts. They said that they do this all of the time. The soft music and candles helps comfort their son and helps him go to sleep without nightmares. His ex wife assured me that she is not interested in my husband. She just wants to help her son have a peaceful nights sleep. They claim that they do this all of the time. Are they right? Should my husband and his ex wife really be laying butt booty naked in our bed together?
2007-08-02 04:07:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Was the child in the room with them??? That's just so wrong!
I can understand doing things to sooth a child, but what the heck does being naked have to do with it??? That's sick!
Either it was the world crappiest lie to you, or there is something seriously wrong with how they "sooth" their child.
I hope they lied to you! It's sad to think they would use their child as an excuse, but I sure hope they did. File a report of what they told you about soothing their child, and file for a divorce.
2007-08-02 04:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not only is this a big fat lie it is some real sick behavior if they are telling the truth. No parents should be laying in a bed naked with their child. If all they wanted to do was to sooth the boy, why are they naked? There's a whole lot more going on here and you should get well clear of it. Kick that perv and his ex to the curb and call ACS or children's services and report these creeps.
2007-08-02 04:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a Mom to 6 kids i felt I needed to answer this question,
First off why are they laying the naked? A 6 yr old is a little old to see his parents in bed naked together.(or even to young).
There is more to the story than they want to tell you. I personally have never put soft music on and lit candles to put my kids to sleep....
So I really think you need to let him go!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-02 04:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Getz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this makes no sense what-so-ever. Why in the world would they need to be naked in order to console their son? Neither are correlated and you should have questioned why they were naked in order to do so. Sounds to me like they came up with an excuse in case they were caught in the act. I'm interested in where the 6 year old was whenever you found them. Very disturbing.
2007-08-02 04:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absloutley no longer! Are you kidding!! you will possibly desire to flow away him heavily that isn't suitable in any respect. For the sake of their son? If that became authentic it somewhat is even incorrect and disgusting they should not be laying around bare mutually or bathen mutually infront of a 2 year previous! the two make him end or make him flow away you do no longer deserve this from him, i do no longer think of they could in basic terms be laying or bathen mutually hunnie and that i be conscious of it hurts yet you will possibly desire to get to the backside of this and handle it asap! stable success and you will discover extra suitable!
2016-10-09 01:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is not acceptable, especially since the child is seeing the difference between male and female. Besides, there is no reason for your husband to be naked with the ex..just leads to other problems...
2007-08-02 04:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds crazy to me! Did you ask what it is they do once the kid is asleep? Why do they need to be naked during this. Soft music and candles, naked on your bed? I think you are being had.
2007-08-02 04:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I should say not. That's the best excuse I have ever heard of for cheating.I would take his all his clothes that he didn't have on and throw them in the trash and stick his candles on fire where ever you want them. Also throw the bed and matress out of the house to. Forget this situation because it is time for him to go!! Best wishes.
2007-08-02 04:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I am sorry that you are going through this, you should not have to listen to that crap. It sounds like they are just trying to put one over you. I have two children but never have me and my husband had to get totally nude to make our children feel better. It is his loss and if they do it all the time why are you just finding out about it. It sounds like they were hiding something this whole time and the fact that they did not expect you to walk in probably scared them and they came up with that lame excuse. I am so sorry. If you need someone to talk to feel free to email me anytime.
2007-08-02 04:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by mom2abigsis 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, that is disrespectful to you. they need to find another way of putting their son to sleep. they can find classical music that can be soothing for their son. but she is a ex she shouldn't even be in your home for that at least not naked. what was he thinking of to do this and have been doing it sounds like for a long time.
2015-07-05 11:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by edie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋