im not sure why im writing about this, i doubt any one can help.
im 15, and my best friend was 13 a the time of this
well my best friend was walking home from my house a little over a year ago, i was watching her walk home, because she lives across the street. when a drunk plow driver hit, and killed her right in front of my house. ive been to over 8 different counselers, and nothing is helping, because they tell me all the same thing. & i cry almost everyday and i have night mares every night and i just see the whole accident being played out repetively. i just want re-assurance, that this will get easier. because i just feel like no one understands.
2007-08-02 03:39:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well honey your young and i know that had to be very hard for you and it will take time to get over this in 1981 my husband was killed by a car i had three baby's small one's and then in 2001 my soon to be husband died also due to a drunk driver and it's not been eazy but i have moved on because i know they wouldn't want me to do something to stop other's from doing what happen to them you'll never forget but it get's eazyer make a stand do something you know she would want you to do move a head not backward's honey it alwayed helped me to say over and over before i go to bed think pink think good and really see the color pink before you sleep and say i send all my love to who ever you choose try it be a speaker for your friend against drunk driver's it will do you some good god love you honey i hope everything wor'k out for you
2007-08-02 04:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by momalleyray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how traumatic this is for you. It is unfortunate that you had to witness this, and even more unfortunate that you're tormented by the memory. It sounds to me like you're experiencing post traumatic stress disorder to some degree. Maybe you would benefit from medication for the time being.
Perhaps you might want to get involved with one of the organizations that are against drunk driving. Dedicating some time to preventing accidents like this for others might benefit you and help you cope.
It will get easier with time. Hang in there!
2007-08-02 10:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I' sorry but no one will understand. Everyone is different kiddo, you're dealing with it in your own way. It will get better though. I know this sounds cruel but have you made a new best friend yet? If you haven't I think it's time to start to open up and find one again I think that could help. Time doesn't heal all wounds but it does help them.
2007-08-02 11:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i know, she's your best friend. you can't really do anything about it or turn back time, past is past.
my advice to you is to move on. i'm sure you have a NEW best friend now? (okay, okay, you can tell me i DONT understand you, ...).
but considering your relationship is so close that your suffering from depression over her death, especially watching her get run over too, well she is just a best friend. what are you going to do if it was somebody in your family?
if you keep living on like this....
just talk to your mom and family and stuff. that's what their there for.
2007-08-02 10:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by TT 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can help it, She had to die, and she did.
You simply cant do anything against God's will.
Listen to nirvana.
2007-08-02 10:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋