is this normal?????

Question

i had sex the other day for the first time......and it didn't hurt and i didn't bleed is that normal????

Answer 1

Yep. Believe it or not, most girls hymens break before the first time they have sex and most girls don't bleed their first time, but since that's just like every other time anyone has sex, it's not newsworthy like bleeding is, so those are the stories that get told and spread around. People that don't bleed don't necessarily tell anyone that because then they might think she wasn't a virgin, and girls like to brag about how bad it hurt or how much they bled as a way of proving how much of a virgin they were. It's stupid

Answer 2

Congratulations about the later. The guy prepared you well. The second part: many women don't bleed or bleed very little. It is normal.

Answer 3

you probably have a high tolerance to pain thats all. not everybody has pain and bleeding when they first have sex, i didnt really bleed at all but i remember the pain! lol

your just a very lucky girl! hope you remembered contraception tho!

Answer 4

well it didnt hurt my first time either but i bleed when i was just fingered it he was gentle maybe that is why dont worry about it and did he know you were a virgin cuz it may still happen when he hits the right spot or maybe his thing is small

Answer 5

Sure is! Not everyone bleeds nor does everyone hurt when they lose their virginity.

Answer 6

its normal yes if you didnt bleed
and you lucked out on the pain part,
maybe your just more tolerant to pain then others!
well congrats :)

Answer 7

yes this is normal but be careful and use a condom