She openly told me this today. What do you think I should do? Her husband is hot too, should we swap for a day? Seriously.
2007-08-02 02:51:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just want to say, to all of those who commented, thank you. I am going to reconsider....
2007-08-02 06:45:53 · update #1
I cant believe you would tell everyone our business!! You didnt tell them the whole story , you have already been sleeping with my husband and then you brought up that threesome! I also have already slept with your husband many times......dont worry though he doesnt enjoy me as much as you because I dont get into some things you guys do , like the a**l.....I think we should just keep our own men and swap once a month to keep things fun!!BTW your husband is a cross dresser...I bet you didnt know that !
2007-08-02 12:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your sister what happened. Tell her you were blind drunk, like you said. And you didnt mean to sleep with him, and she shouldnt be mad at just you. Im sure you didnt rape him, so he must have done everything back, right? Unless you were both drunk. In that case I would just tell your sister that you were both really drunk and you have no feelings towards her husband. Dont hook up with him again, because your sister will probably ask how many times youve done it and if you say youve done it more than once itll hit her like a ton of bricks.
2016-05-21 00:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that having a swap might be fun but in the end it will most likely cause problems not just between your husband but your sister as well. I would stay away from that idea. Talk to your sister and tell her your not into that idea.
2007-08-02 03:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk about a close-knit family! I'm not going to condemn ya, but I'm sure there will be a gaggle of bible thumpers that will sling some rocks at you.
I don't really think this is anything more than a lame attempt at trolling, but better make sure your relationship is ready for some bs like wife swapping.
2007-08-02 02:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Pedro the lawnboy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say no. What if your husband ends up lousy in bed (to her) and hers ends up better than yours. Then whatcha gonna do? How about VD, pregnancy, and possibly emotional involvement that goes wrong?
This is family, and it could cause some serious problems if things go wrong. If you were to swap with someone else, you could just stop seeing them if something went wrong - - but family?
If you should decide to do this, seriously talk to each other about how you would handle any consequences -- no matter how far fetched they may seem.
2007-08-02 02:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Once you buy into this there will be other things going on behind your back, like them going having sex while you're at work, gone on weekend trips; and you will surely breakup your own family, husband and sister. Please if you care about yourself and your husband and sister. Don't do this. At least if you do find someone not related to you so you have the control to cut the ties if you get tired. (but it's still not good to share your man!!!) You are only asking for trouble.
2007-08-02 03:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Cutie Pie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a match made in heaven. There will be no losers and I'm sure the guys won't complain. Go for it.
Your neighbours would never suspect such shenanigans were going on, just family visits.
2007-08-02 03:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a question of the grass is always greener. If you performed this swap, each of your lives would be ruined through lack of trust with each of the other. Just realise that what you've got may not seem desirable, but that's only because you've already got it, and we can only really desire what we havn't got, but once we've got it, it is no longer desirable. Life sucks sometimes but you just have to learn to face the reality of it. Relationships are about moving through different stages of love, and they won't always be about passion and desire.
2007-08-02 03:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband and my son from a previous marriage are at war. My husband has been cold to my son for years?
2016-08-20 15:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No. arent you afraid that your husband will fall for her and than leave you. Wow. that will cause sooo many problem. and if you love your husband soo much then Say Hell To The Fudge No. Her husband may be hot tell her to screw her man. youll loose your husband you idiot! unless you dont love your husband and you like being a nasty sleeze. yuck
2007-08-02 03:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋