is it wrong to let men know this upfront? and yes, size does matter, dont care what others say, it does matter to me..... and guys, have you ever had a girl do this to you? do you get mad?
i dont mean to sound shallow, but to me sex is a very important part of my life, and extremely important when it comes to considering a relationship with someone. i feel if we arent sexually compatible, the relationship wont last?
2007-08-01 20:57:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Whatever, don't listen to those people. How the hell are you supposed to have a relationship with someone who cannot satisfy you. I did not hear you say anywhere that sex is ALL that matters in a relationship. But it IS a very important part of it no matter what anyone says. If he just doesn't do it for you then that is that. You don't need to keep trying, it's not going to get bigger. Just cut your losses and move on. As for his feelings? I am sure he will get over it....they always do.
2007-08-01 21:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by pxyfox2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If size does matter to you, how do you know if he is too little for you or if you are too big for him??? You might find out that what he lacks in size, could very well be hiding some of the best cunnilingus skills ever known to woman!! By the way, when it comes down to it...a good relationship is NOT based on sex alone!!!
2007-08-01 21:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by gitargal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an important part of any relationship...but i did not read that you meant its the only important thing.
So I admire your honesty...and to each his own.
I hope you have been with this guy long enough to know more about him other than the size of his tool...and so you must've weighed this physical criteria with the rest of what he's got (you know...personality, sense of humor, intellect, sincerity...)...Or you must've engaged already in some sexual encounter early on for you to discover his size before knowing him more as a person?
At any rate...if you are already turned off for whatever reason...just do cut the relationship...but please do so politely without being rude. Just tell him you don't feel special about him.
2007-08-01 21:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Yet D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes It Can Be Rude To Tell Some One They Are Small.
2007-08-01 21:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by BKJH_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 11:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are right to tell them. If you are that shallow that sex is so important to you, you should let them know right up front. Relationships based on sex do not last though.
2007-08-01 21:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Yoda 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes that would be wrong. Why do you need that pointed out? Maybe you should tell him he deserves a nicer person than you, that's also the truth.
2007-08-01 21:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by chante 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
if that the truth then your just being honest you might give the guy a complex though and he might start doing things to look bigger, get bigger, and maybe even hide his penis from girls so they cant see the extension he put in the condom to make it longer and thicker if they make such a thing.
2007-08-01 21:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by bayarealatino925 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no sense in destroying his ego because you're shallow.
2007-08-01 21:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Miss D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. That is mean. You should want to be with people for who they are, not their size.
2007-08-01 21:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋