I stopped watching porn, but I still like to masturbate. And I usually do it to fantasies I have, is that wrong? People told me porn could become addicting, but if I have fantasies isn't that the same thing? Is it ok?
2007-08-01 19:16:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
its healthy. go ahead play with yourself.
2007-08-01 19:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by razorblade romance 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel guilty. It is a perfectly normal sexual outlet for men and women. Porn I guess can be addicting, so can gambling, drugs, food, shopping, surfing the web, anything that takes over your life is an addiction.
I don't know that there is any difference between viewing porn and fantasies really, as long as they don't become a substitute for developing real relationships I don't see the harm in a little indulgence.
2007-08-01 19:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by sara r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer to this question is the only one that is important or relevant. The more you are aware of what you like and what feels good to you, the easier it will be to share and the easier it will be for someone you care about to be free to tell you what they like and feels good to them, and ultimately a better and much closer relationship with that person. So... What could be wrong with that ? It's Your Decision. No One Elses.
An old man that I knew when I was young used to tell everyone that there are 2 kinds of liars in this world. One says they've never masturbated and the other say's that they quit.
2007-08-01 19:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by barterjunkie12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you masturbate you have a lot of company.
Fantasies are fairly normal. It is a problem if you have a strong moral feeling you shouldn't masturbate or fantasize.
And if masturbation and fantasy takes the place of real relationships that can also lead ro problems.
What I'm saying is that I don't think you should feel any guilt. Don't overdo it; real sex is a lot better and make sure you don't pass it up because you are too busy servicing yourself.
2007-08-01 19:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with porn, fantasies, or masturbation. Porn can become addicting, but so can a lot of other things. Unless its interfering with your daily life there isn't anything wrong with it at all.
2007-08-01 19:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with masturbating, I do it all the time. And contrary to what some others think not all women find porn to be a turn off. I happen to like it.
2007-08-01 19:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by 1sleepymama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grew to become into baptized Catholic and attended Catholic intense college. and that's maximum all I heard in faith type. Masturbation is a sin, masturbation is a sin. meanwhile the countless (holy) brothers have been sexually abusing some boys! it particularly is worse? while one person hurts yet another that for the time of my ideas is worse. once you masturbate, you injury no person. no longer even your self bodily. in certainty the medical community has come out and stated that ejaculation is nice for the male prostrate organ. no count if from masturbation or sexual intercourse. i will no longer be able to and should no longer inform you what to do. yet i think in case you masturbate, it a minimum of can grant some thing to declare at "confession".
2016-11-10 23:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah. i dont do it but i dont care if others do. yeah porn can become addicting, but the only problem is if you have a wife/ girlfrind that you are going to for sex after you get hard from porn or thinking about other people. that could cause serious problems in your relatonship. or if you are a very aggressive person then watching pron could make you want sex so badly that you rape. but that would be if you are already inclined to do so. porn wont make an average person rape.
2007-08-01 19:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy. Porn is addictive and not good but your imagination is normal and is good. It is also normal after you masturbate to feel guilty or embarrassed by it.
2007-08-02 05:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Racer20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't feel guilty about masturbating,at least no-one is getting hurt by you if your doing by yourself.
This is part of life.Just make sure you enjoy it,when you don't enjoy it is when you have a problem
2007-08-01 19:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by MOMMA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah all men do it, and porn like anything else is okay in moderation because it helps relieve sexual fustrations BUT don't watch too much or your gonna end up messed up! But if your religious and it's wrong in your religion well...then yeah don't do it!
2007-08-01 19:18:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋