this sounds like he loves u as a friend, but isn't sure whether he could love u as a gf. this has happened to me, i have a friend who ive known literally all my life and i love her like a sister, but im not sure whether i could love her as a gf, she has always had a crush on me, ive known for years, but if i ask her out, and something goes wrong in our relationship, our friendship could be gone. if he loves u the way i love my friend, im guessin hes thought about this and isnt sure wat to do, i still dont know wat to do with my situation, but i think his situation might be a bit like mine. hope this helps, good luck :)
2007-08-01 18:50:18
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answered by R 2
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I agree with one of the person who answered this question that he might have thought of the option to develop the relationship further, but he is so used to hang out with you as friends or brother/sister... that he have no clue that how the relationship would work if you two were to try this new stage together, he is worrying he might lose you as a friend if it won't make it. And wonder whether he have cross the line between friendship and lover in his heart.
Might be you can show him extra attention, and create surprise for him, etc. Sometimes when you know someone so well, it is hard to see them as fresh (same go for couple that have been together for so long)...So if you can make him feel that being a girlfriend of him and being a friend of him is VERY different, and can be a new level of understanding and creative communication, you win half of the battle. But if he feel like there won't be another level, eg. he might think you being as friend and GF will have no such big different, or don't know what it would be like, since you know each other so well. Then you might lose him
2007-08-02 04:03:26
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answered by deskof.vivian 2
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Uhm... the guy wants to have it both ways?
Wants to have his honey and you on the side in a holding pattern? Why?
He's jealous that you might be happy with another guy?
That isn't right.
Sounds like another immature, manipulative baby. That is sooo junior high! Call him out on it.
If he wants you, you will demand a certain level of maturity and commitment.
You can keep him as an occasional friend, but don't take any crap from him. For yourself, move on and see what kind of nice fellows you can make the acquaintance of.
2007-08-01 18:50:19
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answered by revsuzanne 7
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the one thing she lacks is the biggest thing you have in common is what? friendship? he has an emotional attachment to you but he has a girlfriend. so i suggest you let them be. if he wanted you for a girlfriend, he'd have TRIED to court you. unless he's afraid of the "after" part. that's when you break-up and the friendship also goes down the drain. as long as he has a GF try to be just a friend. keep your "crushing" to yourself. when they break-up see what would happen.
2007-08-01 18:49:50
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answered by philosophical beaver 3
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i think of that something would desire to take place with you and B. She of course likes you, in any different case she does no longer have spent that plenty time with you and does no longer communicate approximately you to her dad and mom. i think of she would have been somewhat annoyed as she in all probability enjoyed you once you instructed her you enjoyed A. yet A is now interior the previous. you will desire to in all probability tell her which you think of she is a extra appropriate individual for you than A would have been. to aim and make her your GF, why do no longer you pass out for a meal and then pass watch a frightening movie, then you definately can see if she cuddles as much as you while shes scared and you will see if she likes you and perchance have a sprint kiss!!! good success, desire this helps!! xooxox
2016-10-01 05:52:44
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answered by ? 4
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your feelings are young and immature u should seek a relationship where the feelings are mutual. and not try to mess up others remember karma is a m.f.
2007-08-01 19:01:03
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answered by Anonymous
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well i don't really get this part
He told me he thinks she's perfect for him
don't break up the relationship just let time go by and if they aren't ment for each other than they will break up, don't force em, that is bad
2007-08-01 18:45:12
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answered by Ledzeppelin324 4
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tell him you feel like you're in the way of him and his girlfriend and make him choose between you and her. what does he want you to do? sit and wait around for him to decide who he wants to be with, that's not fair to you at all. How can he be mad at you for trying to make yourself happy? He needs to man up and tell you who he really wants to be with. Don't let anybody play with your heart
2007-08-01 21:09:41
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answered by ? 3
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do nothing ..... let him makeup his mind .... before he can wish for you he needs to let go of his present relationship.
2007-08-01 18:46:09
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answered by Sean 4
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Dont know
2007-08-01 18:45:26
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answered by Queen Ruzi 1
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