how can i get my friends back after a bigfall out?

Question

i had this huge fight with one of my friends but then she dragged everyone else into it and they took her side. we made up but it was never the same how can i get it the way it was with everyone? please help!!

Answer 1

if they arent willing to put it past them then dont worry with them. You have to apologize to them if i did anything wrong. If they are going to act childish about it and not forget the past then id say forget them and make them part of the past too.

Answer 2

Fights do leave scares, the only thing you can really do is give it time. As the saying goes "Time Heals all Wounds". I think the best you can do is hang out with your friend more include the other friends. Maybe have a party and invite all the friends. Don't push the issue just get your mind set that everything is fine. Make sure you have forgiven yourself first.
If you act as if everything is alright then eventually everyone will come around. Make sure you have accepted and apologised for your side of the fight, sometimes even telling your friend that you love him/or her and that you would like things to get back on track helps. Once again it will take TIME. Friends are like rare gems. Good Luck

Answer 3

You don't mention your age.

Okay... your "friend" dragged your entire circle of friends into this argument and poisoned them against you?
Not much of a friend, is that? That isn't indicative of a mature person. Sounds more like a manipulative queen bee.

If you were wrong, then fine, admit it and get on with it. Your real friends will recognize an effort to mature on your part. Stuff will smooth over over some time.

On the other hand, I would consider getting out and finding some new friends that don't hinge on this particular little clique. I think you just might need to outgrow this bunch.

Answer 4

Tell her and eveyone else that it was all in the past this is the future you u dont want to dragg things on forever