H4ve a 4 way with your husband, best friend and her husband who is really good friends with your husband?
2007-08-01 17:52:48 · 13 answers · asked by meghann m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not see what the big deal is. If you feel that these are people that you can trust and possibly would not mind doing again, then go for it. I believe that nothing should stop ability to learn, this could be seen as a ability to learn about yourself. Also, this experience will allow you to grow both individually and as a couple. Go for it!!
2007-08-01 18:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Albert E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't . I would never be able to do something like that. My husband and I may talk about doing a threesome or some other kinky things in sexual fantasies, but that is why they are called fantasies. I don't want to share my most intimate moments with anyone but the one I love. I could not share hime with anyone else either. If a best friend and her husband were involved with us in that way, I would have a hard time being with them in everyday situations after that. What would you do when you both show up at the PTA at your school and other social functions. I would not want others I know to know something like that either. It is just too personal. It would have to be strangers if I ever did something like that.
2007-08-02 00:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pat Hawk Smith ( fluffypurrcat) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not unless I wanted to ruin my relationships with all of the people you just mentioned. If hubby is pressuring you, he needs therapy. You don't want to have regrets. It might sound like fun at the time, but seriously when the alchohol wears off could you respect yourself or them in the mornning? What if you or your husband start wanting the other person's spouse more than your own since there are no commitment issues, or responsabilities, and it's new and exciting what happens then? Wife swap?
Good-luck
2007-08-02 00:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by *blah blah* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You end up losing your friends and marriage that way when jealousy gets involved. You have to be highly mature and have an open view of marriage and relationships that 95% of the people in the world do not have.
2007-08-02 00:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that's a very good idea. UNLESS you wish to lose your husband, AND friends
2007-08-02 01:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!!!! like janicasaid, u'll lose ur friends and husband. Plus, word might get out and u'll be hated by EVERYONE. Who would ever be stupid enough to do that?? pick ONE!!!
2007-08-02 00:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
only if I was into the good friends wife more than my own.
2007-08-02 00:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just plain wrong on so many levels.
2007-08-02 01:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello no what is wrong with pep. you are begging for your marriage to end or what it want at first but it will hant you later on
2007-08-02 00:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by sassfrass 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
creative, but no. its ok 4 some ppl.
2007-08-02 00:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋