I'm serisouly thinking about going to Walmart today and buying a gun cause i'v been payinig child suport for 14yrs and don't have a picture and worst of all haven't seen my son since 1994.I got nothng to live for and i just want to end this agony of pain.I apologize for my spelling.
2007-08-01 17:51:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey Hemi...rethink this. Death is permanent man. Don't give up. Your son will soon be old enough to appreciate that this father never gave up.
Drop to your knees and talk to God. We can pour our heart out to Him and He always listens. Lay all of your pain at His feet and He'll help you make it through.
2007-08-01 18:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide if you should live or die. But, dying is easy, and you can do that anytime; so there is no real reason to hurry- the means will always be available. But, what's the rush? Even IF things are as lousy as you say, or even worse, there must be things you've thought about doing--- why not take a shot before you decide to check out? What ya got to lose??? Go climb Mt Everest. Build a log cabin up in Alaska- you might get rich panning gold. Or start a canine brothel for Hollywood dogs. Sneak into Cuba and overthrow Castro. Found a religion, or start a charity. Perhaps you are a nicer guy than me, but personally, in the times in my life when things got so terrible that I was certain that it just wasn't worth it, and I yearned for oblivion; I couldn't let myself die- and let the poopy faces that beat me so far down have the satisfaction of hearing that I was dead. And, I've outlived several of them. And yes, I did take pleasure in personally watering their graves- and no, I didn't have a watering can. Even if you can't really think of a reason to want to live, just not letting some blastard or blitch have the satisfaction of knowing they managed to destroy you, should be enough incentive to live.
2007-08-02 01:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that...child support and visitation are separate matters. If you have court ordered child support, you can petition for court ordered visitation. She can't stop you from seeing your son. I pray for my daughter's father to feel desperate to see her....she'll be 3 this year and all he's ever sent her was $50 and some used clothes...he's NEVER held her or seen her in person. Don't end it or you'll never have the chance to see him and explain yourself.
2007-08-02 01:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it. Yes, it sucks that you don't get to see your kids, but that is why you fight for it. If you live in the same state, go to the police or court and file a complaint each time you don't get to see your kids. Just don't give up. Keep doing it and try to let them know that you care no matter what.
2007-08-02 01:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by traceylenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't been able to see your son and you have been paying child support, you should have gone to court a long long long time ago to ask for your rights to see your child. this could have all been resolved, but if you are having suicidal thoughts maybe its best that you get help and not endanger your child right now.
2007-08-02 01:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay another dime until you see your son. Don't think about checking out... that's permanent, we'll all be dead soon enough.. enjoy life while you are here and go see your son.
2007-08-02 01:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont do anything foolish. Go to your local authorities and ask them to escort you to your son's home, so that you may visit with him.
2007-08-02 01:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but you can fight this. fathers have rights too. look into it and dont give up.
2007-08-02 00:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋