what should i do i am only 15 and he keeps trying to have sex and putting up my skirt!!
2007-08-01 17:50:32 · 19 answers · asked by pie P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you need to dump him or tell him straight up that you do not want sex. do not let him force you, you will regret it later. dont ever do anything that you dont want to or not ready to do. you need to make it clear to him.
2007-08-01 17:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jaymee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, in no uncertain terms, that you are unwilling to have sex right now.
If he doesn't back off, get a parent involved.
Whatever you do, don't allow yourself to be pushed into a bad situation like that. You're only 15. You deserve to come into your sexuality respectfully, with much maturity and much more knowledge. Trust me, there is plenty of time for it to happen later on.
2007-08-02 01:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by geewillie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him firmly that you will only have sex with him when you are ready. If you think all the groping is overwhelming as well make very clear to him that you are uncomfortable with it. If he persists, drop him cos he aint worth it. There are plenty of guys around with good upbringing who respect a lady. You certainly dont need a guy who treats you like a piece of meat.
2007-08-02 00:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answer the question yourself. You are only 15. What do you need a boyfriend for? Do you even know what having a boyfriend means? We are so far away from what is right and wrong.
If he was really your bf and loved you for who you are, he would not be disrespecting you like that.
2007-08-02 00:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what you really should be asking yourself, is why on earth you would want to have a friend (let alone boyfriend) like him.
You need someone who respects you as a person and cares about your opinion.
First thing to do is talk to your parents and friends. That way you will have their support.
Then, break up with him. If he keeps harrasing you, then talk to his parents if you know them, else talk to all his friends especially girls.
I think i don;t need to tell you how to use your friends (especially girls) on how to embarrass him to get him off your back.
trust me, there is nothing he can do to you to make it not worthwhile. Get rid of him and find someone who actually respects you.
2007-08-02 01:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't find the strength to dump him, ie, if he's still going to be persistent ... then TELL HIS PARENTS. They'll get on his case, and maybe he'll do you a favor and dump YOU.
Seriously, the others are right, you don't need this ... if you don't want to have sex, that's the final word. How much older is this guy than you? He doesn't respect you, he just wants to hit them skins, and he'll tell you anything he thinks you want to hear in order to attain that goal. Don't do it.
2007-08-02 00:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Smoothie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong, just he need the sex, and you are not around there yet...
almost same as the advises before me, tell him straight that you still don't want to have sex... if he love you he will wait, else move on, find one that is willing to wait for you...
either one side will have to do the sacrifice...
he wait for you, or
you do it for him...
actually there is third... you let him to have sex with other gals, while you don't need sex... this seem to be a rude choice, as he might fall in love with other gals, and later result to dump you...
hope it help, anything take it easy...
cheer~
2007-08-02 12:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kordal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"he keeps trying to have sex and putting up my skirt"...you are describing attempted rape. He is no longer your boyfriend, he is your attacker. Break up with him, and NEVER EVER from this moment on allow yourself to be alone with him again.
2007-08-02 01:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You7 really don't need a boy like that do you? I can see you need a young man who respects you and your decisions. Talk to some one with experience, a counselor, your older siblings, your mother. You need to talk to someone and not on here...okay?
2007-08-02 00:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Big Sexy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What? dump this guy. He just want to get some and leave you. If you lay down for him now, you will cry tomorrow believe me. I don't care if I judge him but what I say is true. I see it happen everytime.
2007-08-02 01:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋