1st plz no rude answers.Ok details to help yall out some Im very mature me and my bf has ben going out since the 8th grade we r seniors now. We love each other spend every moment wit each other.We've always wanted a baby we both are very responsible ppl. I basically have raised my niece whos now 14 months i've ben taking care of her since she was 13 weeks wen she was abandoned so shes lived wit us since i buy everything 4 her n wake up n the nites u name it i do it n hes practically raised his brotha bc his mom really cant do it We've went to classes on pregnancy n responsibilty n have went to Family Life Center to get insite so we are very informed we also read books We tried a couple times now n everytime i started my cycle not 1 time did i get preg. so it makes me feel like somethings wrong or i cant have kids.And We really want one .So me n my bf thought maybe my body isnt ready. could dat be it. Bc I'm only 5'1 106 pounds.And we both feel like we are ready.What do yall think?
2007-08-01 17:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by SayWhat! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's not wring to have the desire to have a baby. What's wrong is deciding to bring one into the world before you are emotionally and financially ready to support it. My husband and I have wanted a baby since we dated in high school, but we used our heads and waited until we had graduated from college and got married. We are now expecting our 2nd baby and we have never regretted waiting. Your height and weight have nothing to do with it. I'm 5'3" and 110 and have never had a problem conceiving.
2007-08-01 17:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should wait a week, you are not at your most fertile just as you finish your period. Truely though, not getting pregnant might be life's way of suggesting you wait. Finish school first. Kids have many implications, apart from the obvious. Just imagine you have a baby now, and the stress of it (and there's plenty) breaks your relationship. There you'd be, still a teenager, unqualified, and having to bring a baby up on your own. I really think you should finish school, at the least, and preferably get qualified at something. If either of you is going to go to college, it will change your outlook on life so much that you may find yourselves no longer compatible. At 18, your personality and world views aren't fully decided yet. I'm 27 and just had my daughter 4 months ago. I had wanted to earlier, but my boyfriend (of 5 years) wanted to wait another 6 months. I used that time to learn as much as I could about pregnancy, childbirth, and future issues like education, religion and all that kind of stuff. Maybe that's what you should do. Prepare yourself with all the skills that you want to be able to teach your kids later. I'm learning to sew and knit at the moment...
2007-08-01 17:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 08:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want one go for it but this maybe God letting you know it's just not your time and this is making you think about having one. Why not get married first or make sure you have a good job? What's the rush. You'll have one when it's your time and not a day before good luck
2007-08-01 18:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by i love being a mommy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its wrong however i do think there is something that you are lacking that makes u WANT a baby..believe me there is so much more that you could do with ur life at eighteen , believe me no matter how much experience u think u have u r not ready, what about college? dont u want to be able to provide better stability? having a baby will not make ur bond stronger ,PLEASE think about this because i would hate 4 u to make ur life harder than it already is..
2007-08-01 19:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by AAROKIA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is not only your body, but your boyfriend body too. Both have all to do with it. Maybe is nothing, just anxiety. But to be sure you and your boyfriend should be checked by the doctor.
2007-08-05 14:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your weight and size have nothing to do with your fertility...your only 18 whats the rush anyways?
2007-08-01 21:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋