ok well my friend has a boyfriend who is 2 years older(15) and i don't want her to get hurt
she just met him online a couple days ago
and he lives in the same town as one of her cousins
i don't know if i should tell her or not
i mean i don't want her to break up with him and be mad at my but i luv her(like a sister) and i hate seeing my friends get hurt
can anyone help?
2007-08-01 17:25:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i mean her boyfriend seems nice and everything- and i know he's not a bad guy or anything- but i'm also afraid that i'm just gunna loose her to him : (
2007-08-02 04:19:39 · update #1
Explain to her that online dating is not safe, and she will understand if she's a true friend. If she gets mad at you, just give her some time to calm down and she will eventually understand your concerns. Don't push her too much, let her have her time to deal with her emotions and thoughts. Give her some space, but guide her in the right directions if you see her going somewhere else.
Good Luck!
2007-08-01 17:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by cricket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... meeting people online is not necessarily all bad. But I think you guys are too young to deal with dating online and have a lot to learn. If she ever plan to meet him make sure there's a lot of people going with her and bring a Big guy just in case the guy turns out to be a child predator.
2007-08-01 17:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dislike her boyfriend, then tell him so. how can she know? but you are not in the appropriate authority to tell her to break up with him. but what you can do is to advise her that she had chosen the wrong sort of guy. but never degrade her boyfriend in front of her because you two might fight each other.
2007-08-01 17:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do so much, tell her how you honestly feel and that you'll be there if anything should happen.
2007-08-01 17:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by sara c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for her
2007-08-05 11:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋