Are you happy with the decision you made?
2007-08-01 17:21:41 · 18 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He sees me for who I really am and I feel safe enough not to hold back any part of myself. He does not judge and is very emotionally expressive.
Past boyfriends or dates tried to push me into a mold of "the perfect woman" rather than be honest with themselves about what they wanted and who I was.
I'm VERY happy with my decision.
2007-08-01 17:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i knew the first day i met him. even though i had had a few dreams and spiritual experiences telling me he was the one. the thing that made me choose him was that despite his deep depression and dark painful side i was always able to see the good in him even though all i mostly have seen was pain. but i had faith in him. even though these past eleven years has been emotional hell, i know my desicion was right. because now after all that time im starting to see the man i had always known was inside of him. sometimes you just know. can you look deep into a persons heart and soul and feel forever, no matter how difficult a path you need to go down. do i want to be married? yes but i refuse to make him before hes mentally ready. besides. it would be nice to beable to afford to start a family so ill work towards that first.
and by the way, there would be a few things i would change if i went back but no one can doe that.i would do it all over again though. because i love this man so much. he is truely my best friend. we do everything together. except he doesnt hang around my family or friends because hes so introverted. but thats ok.he trusts me. any other time, were content when its just the two of us
2007-08-01 17:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inner strength and focus. Unfortunately, I made the wrong decision. But I learned that it's not one or two qualities within a person that sets them apart. It's the whole package. I thought he should possess qualities that I didn't and we would complement each other. He did too. Wrong thing to base a marriage on. Those were the very things that drove us apart HA! Turns out, I have more inner strength than him afterall. Anyway, for the future, what I will look for is that Christ is in his heart. Then, we will be able to go through anything together.
2007-08-01 17:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by MsManner 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He agreed with me on my philosophy about the words "I promise" early on in our dating, and proved to me he meant it by never using it with me, or our children, all these years. That has seriously impressed me.
I'm of the opinion that the words "I promise" need to be abolished from any relationship's conversations. They can bring a lot of joy to people, but also a lot of pain and hurt as well.
You can't break a promise that you never made.
You can say I will do my best, I will try...there are so many other options...but to promise something, and not deliver - can destroy someone, be they an adult or a child.
2007-08-01 17:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was handsome, polite, sexy and a hunk of a man. He was physically strong and yet, very gentle. His quiet turn was hard to understand but now, I love it.
I am very happy with the decision to marry him, and I love him more now after 39 years than ever before.
2007-08-01 17:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His looks and body was so dam hot and every girl that was around him tried to get him. That was a big ego boost for me. Now he has gained weight and a lot less hair but i still see the man i fell in love with 28 years ago.
2007-08-01 17:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Endless attempts at understanding me and allowing me to my faults without getting horribly angry at me. He is also funny, sexy, and thoughtful. Yes I'm happy with my decision.
2007-08-01 17:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by tabbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is my best friend, a great lover, and a great person. He is the most amazing man I have ever met. We argue sometimes but we never stay mad. I couldn't ask for a better husband.
2007-08-01 17:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't go on and on about how attractive he thought I was....he didn't give me a line.
He enjoyed talking to me and just wanting to have fun and spend time with me.
I found that very sexy and after 32 years I still do.
2007-08-01 17:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the way he fought for me with his family, his government, all he prejudices against a foreign wife.
The way he shows me his love every day makes me want to give him all of me to the very last drop.
I am so happy with him!
2007-08-01 17:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by Little Witchy Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋