Both guys here. I've known Dave for a whole year now, and we get along well, have fun, and just can be comfortable being ourselves around each other. He's always called me a friend. But lately, he's been acting very unfriendly. It's making me question whether we are friends in the first place. It's like, I feel like I'm a 2nd-tier friend to home. And to be honest, I'm hurt, because I thought we were better friends than that. Should I say something to him? How honest should I be?
2007-08-01 16:04:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing can destroy a friendship quicker and easier than not being open, and not being honest. If you don't want this to eat at your friendship, talk to him, becasue it will eventually explode, it did to me. Just talk to him, and he will understand.
2007-08-01 16:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Random answerer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about it... because if you don't, your hurt feelings will just stay hurt and the friendship will probably stay in the same condition if not loosen more. If you talk to him I believe that you can see what is really going on and maybe fix it before you lose a good friend!
I hope this helped... just my opinion :)
2007-08-01 16:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just ask him. Tell him you notice something different with the unfriendly way he has been acting what's going on. Sorry to say, could be you are just growing apart or maybe not. good luck to you.
2007-08-01 16:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him. Be totally honest. He may not be the friend you thought he is, but it's better to find out sooner than later.
2007-08-01 16:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the best thing is to keep going like it never happened. Because it is more important to forgive and keep things intact, than to throw out revilings and ruin it all. You never know what he's going through, bro.
2007-08-01 16:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by The Wonderer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be honest with him...if you thought you were really good friends and he hasn't always been acting like this i would ask him whats up..it might not be you..he might just be going through some hard times...i would definetely just talk to him...
2007-08-01 16:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by JESSICA! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally honest
2007-08-05 11:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋