okay sooo I have major jealousy issues!
I get so jealous so easily!
like for example
there's this guy and we're not going out because he lives 2 hours away from me but he's always calling me and telling me he loves me and whatever..so he's not my boyfriend but you get the picture
well whenever he says he's a another girls house I get sooo jealous! He's just hanging out and they're just his friends but still it bothers me so bad because I can't be with him and they can.. like right now he's at his ex's playing xbox....
and whenever I see a girl with a great boyfriend or awesome hair or something I get so jealous and would do anything for that..
how do I get over this?
this can't be healthy!
2007-08-01 16:01:38 · 21 answers · asked by miss j 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
be contented with what you have and what you are.
be confident that you are beautiful and unique...
try not to look at people....
concentrate on the good characteristics you possess....
i am sure you have better qualities than others....
2007-08-01 16:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kreemery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find something to do. If you had more confidence in yourself, you wouldn't envy others. Be proud of exactly who you are and worry less about others. And that jerk that gets off on calling you from another girl's house is getting off on playing you and the girl at the house where he is at. He's trying to be a player and I'll bet he turns out to be a real loser. Aim a little higher for good relationships and only play with players. You need to mature a bit and get very busy with other things so that you don't have time to dwell on what others have. There will always be people that have more of something that you would like to have. That's life. If you don't like it, then do something to change it so you feel better about yourself.
2007-08-01 16:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG ~ he's not even your boyfriend. Get over it girl.
You didn't say you love him. Are the feelings mutual? OR are you just wanting soemthing that you can't have or that somebody else wants (even though you don't want it)???
Think about it ~ how silly is that????? There is nothing to be jealous about. Either 2 people are INTO each other or they are NOT. There are many people in this world ~ find someone 2 hours closer.
2007-08-01 16:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by MELANIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have jealousy issues too... but only with my husband. He did not do anything to cause the jealousy, it is just me and I think it comes from my past.
I am a strong believer in GOD. The only thing that has helped me to get over my jealousy is to tell myself this " GOD does not give you anything you cannot handle" and "whatever happens is for a reason."
So me being jealous doesn't change anything. All it does is make me and my husband crazy. Me being jealous isn't going to prevent anything from happening or make anything happen.
So try to free your mind from this evil monster. IT SUCKS!!! I KNOW !!!
2007-08-01 16:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Just trying to make it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little Susie loved to flirt with many men. She didn't want any other girl to flirt with all her men. Just one man? Unheard of! This should be a world where a woman can have all the men she wants, and shouldbe able to keep them in a dungeon so no other girl can look at them. YES! You have issues. You can't have them all- and its okay for a guy to think you're cool and still have his own woman.
2007-08-01 16:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by The Wonderer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to start being nicer to yourself. give yourself a break. Maybe start by complimenting yourself every day. also compliment someone else. or you can hang out with people who are not as good looking as you are. (JUST KIDDING) but really try the compliment thing. or see some one like a therapist if its real bad. good luck and by the way I bet your a cute girl
2007-08-01 16:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down woman!!! Stop being so competitive. If you do actually get in a relationship with this guy he should not be hanging at his EX's, that is a good reason for you to get mad.
Work on yourself and body and you will get more confidence. Then get a guy in your neighborhood
2007-08-01 16:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know that this is difficult, but you got to realize he is not your boyfriend. if it makes you feeel this way, try not talking to him a lot and don't let him say "i love you" to you b/c those words are causing you to have more than friendship feelings toward him. so i would say either you let him go completely as friends, communicate with him less, or find yourself a boy you can hang that is closer to you, u should try not to feel this way.
2007-08-01 16:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by claria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath and try and look to the bright side by complimenting them. i'm sure you have qualities that might make others a little jealous themselves, u just don't know about them or what others think
2007-08-01 16:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by camaroredride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're just suffering from a serious case of low self-esteem. You sound very young. When you get older and more mature, this will change.
2007-08-01 16:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋