Annoying friend!!!?

Question

whenever i am totally fine for no reason at all even when i'm smiling my friend asks, "are you ok?" i say yea, and get really mad at her. what should i do?

(shut up moo poo, i am beautiful!!!)

Answer 1

Ask her if she is ok. Usually people that do this are really wanting you to ask them. Make sure she is alright. Plus, if you ask her enough she'll understand that it can be annoying. Also, say, "Thanks for asking but in general I am very happy. You don't have to ask again. I'll let you know."

Answer 2

First of all, why do you get really mad at her for asking you? I can see that it might bother you a little, but there's no reason at all for you to get mad. Why not tell her "Yes, I'm fine, why do you ask?". Maybe press her for an answer, but whatever you do, don't be ugly about it. She's asking you for a reason, just need to find out why. Maybe she just really cares about you; is that so terrible?

Do you have a temper problem? Cuz you told moomoo to shut up for hardly a good reason.

I see in your profile that you're fun and like to help people. Just realize that, in ourselves, we may need a little help every now and then, too. Don't be too proud to look inside yourself and see what might need fixing, or improving... for we could ALL stand a little self improvement, right? I confess, I could stand to be a little more patient with some people.

I wish you well, take care!

Answer 3

I dont think she is annoying she is just observant. Sometimes even when you smile, people can still look like their trying to hide something or just catering to the enviroment. Maybe she notices your expressions and thinks that she is doing something? Who knows. The next time she brings it up, just tell ask is there a reason why she always ask that and whatever the reason is, just tell her that your fine. Reassure that if there was something wrong, you would inform her.

My boyfriend looks crazy but smiles too and I tend to ask that alot but when he says Im okay all generic, afterawhile I start to think I did something wrong. Be thankful she cares about you.

Answer 4

my ex-friend did that to me all the time and so did her mom. It must have been hereditary. Anyway I guess try not to make it so personal, or just ask her not to say this to you anymore. Shes probably only trying to look out for you, but I know what its like to deal with an annoying friend. If you really want the friendship to last, ignore it.

Answer 5

Whenever that happens
just ignore the question
(knowing they only do it because they care)
and change the subject or go on in your activity

sooner or later,
they'll get the message & stop asking
the question is ....
would you like it when that occurs ??

Later on in life,
we get so hungry for that kind of attention
enjoy it while you still can

Answer 6

She just cares about you and you get mad? Imagine this, her habit of asking you making it seem so predicted until one day, she stops asking you, you'll feel empty. Simply ask her why she does it, but i don't think she does it to annoy you on purpose.

Answer 7

You should be gald that she cares enough to ask.

You should assure her that you're fine. Ask her why she asks so frequently and if there's any reason that she might think to ask.

Maybe she's hoping that you're gong to ask her as well. Maybe she has something that she wants to tell you, but isn't so sure.

Good luck. :)

Answer 8

Sis, Jessica only did that once. At the movies. In the dark. And your not beautiful, your flipping ugly.

Answer 9

Don't get mad at her. Tell her to stop it.

Ask her why she does that. Maybe she's got a problem you guys can both deal with.

Answer 10

Ummm well if she's just asking if you're ok, I don't see any reason to get mad. But you could tease her about how many times she says it